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Shout out to all the couples on Pinterest posting their date ideas ‘cause it’s making best-friend-hangout-time ideas super easy to come by

Slight (extremely random) tangent, but the platonic “I love you” needs to be more normalized It hasn’t even really occurred to me before, but it’s kinda unfair how stigmatized(?) it is like, why is it weird to tell my friends I love them. i do love them, as intimately as I can. Why is it awkward for me to tell them that. why do I react like it’s weird when they accidentally tell me “love you” when we’re saying bye to each other why do “I love you”s have to be inherently romantic? Why can’t it be accepted that I love these people deeply but platonically, and only platonically

I know its perfect in every way If you like Cynical Fairytale, I’d also recommend Kalmia Kid by Chloe moriondo and Despair by leo two very good aro songs and they have a similar vibe to cynical

My top three are probably aromantic moodboard, romance is boring (by the Los Campesinos), and cynical fairytale (by Egg) I can give more later but I need to listen through my playlist again and I’m doin volunteering rn

huh, good to know. I experience both so we just vibing i love that song. I’ve got an entire playlist of just aro-coated music but that one’s definitely the one that sticks in my mind …I should make an aro moodboard. I’m surprised it’s taken this long to decide that

Basically the technical term for someone who only experiences sexual attraction allosexual is the opposite of asexual I just say I’m aromantic tho and just leave it at that and if they pry then they pry and make it awkward I’m pretty sure sensual and sexual attraction are relatively the same thing. Sensual can mean like sexy/sexual so you should totally listen. It’s a vibe for us aromantics

This is why I don’t typically touch the alloaro label (even tho I’m pretty sure that’s what I am), ‘cause that can bring a whole storm of questions and it’s awkward as hell to answer them usually and my close friends are aroace or just ace so I can’t exactly talk about sensual attraction with them without it getting awkward yessss like, we aren’t given representation so we will make it Also also, have you ever listened to Aromantic Moodboard by max lizanich? Tis a vibe

Bro That sucks My parents don’t understand aromanticism either, and when I try and explain to them what exactly is up with me it doesn’t go well I just let it drop now. Talk about it with my also aro or ace friends and just let it rest. It’s not worth the arguments and misunderstandings and the constant being told “you’re just confused” or “you haven’t met the right person yet” (bleh) That last part tho. Ick. People need to back the hell up sometimes (a lot of the time) anyways any of my aro-spec buddies: have yall ever like taken (vague) love songs as platonic? ‘Cause a lot of them have some good messages/lyrics that work with platonic love and I do so enjoy taking them as that I am a decently lovey person and I do want to have things that relate to that but there are so many love songs. Might as well pick and choose to my experience as I like, y’know?

more snippets yay?

Maybe I was saving it for character concepts i don’t know

Yeah, I think mine is unmanaged anxiety (and anxiety-induced depression) I don’t like sitting with nothing because sitting makes me think and that’s not fun right now The good news is this is my busy summer and I’m volunteering in an ER for 7 hours most of the week and on the weekends I’m working, so… busy!

NOW we should figure out where the hell I (apparently) heard of this offhandedly and why i felt the need to write it down i honestly might I don’t got much going on in my free time which we CANT have because I must be DOING things at all moments and hours of the day

Isn’t it …WAIT A SECOND that well and truly honestly might be it girlie, don’t ask Spartan might’ve figured it out but I have no clue why I wrote it down …I THINK THIS WAS ME CONFUSED ON AN ACTUAL HISTORICAL THING BUT HONESTLY AT THIS POINT IT WOULDNT SURPRISE ME

I love looking back at my old random notes i recently just found one that says, “living in constant fear of swallowing a glass piano(?)” That’s it do with that what you will and don’t try to get me to explain, that’s a fruitless endeavor (as I don’t remember what I was on/thinking about)