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    It's the final crack We're bound to break the ice now
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    Yes WOF! HAVE YOU READ THE NEW BOOK???? HE IS THE BEST
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    Coming out is a massive, high-definition shift. It’s not just about the internal relief of finally being yourself; it’s about the sudden, often overwhelming way the world starts reacting to you. One of the most exhausting parts of this journey is the influx of questions—some well-meaning, some nosy, and some that are just plain out of line. I’ve realized that I can’t control what people ask, but I can control how much of myself I give away. This week, I’m focusing on Setting Boundaries with Grace. It’s about protecting my peace without losing my kindness. Before I answer any personal question, I’ve started asking myself: Is this person asking because they care about me, or because they feel entitled to my medical or personal history? If someone is coming from a place of genuine love, I might offer a bit more. But if they’re just digging for tea or trying to debate my existence, I don’t owe them an explanation. Grace doesn’t mean being a doormat; it means being firm enough to hold your ground. When someone asks something too personal—like about my old name or my future medical plans—I’ve been practicing the Gentle Pivot. You don't have to be rude to stop a conversation in its tracks. By acknowledging the question and immediately moving the focus elsewhere, you signal that the topic is off-limits without making the moment feel like a confrontation. Sometimes, people try to turn a casual hang-out into a Trans 101 seminar. It’s okay to tell people that you aren’t in the mood to be an educator. "I appreciate that you’re curious, but I’m really just here to relax and hang out today. I’d rather talk about [shared hobby/interest] instead!" This sets a shallow water boundary. It says: I am a person, not a walking encyclopedia for your curiosity. For a lot of us in the trans community, especially here on the Shard, we spend so much time worrying about how others perceive us. We worry about passing, about being valid, and about making everyone else comfortable with our transition. But your mental health is the foundation of your life. If you let everyone trample over your private business, that foundation starts to crack. Setting boundaries is how you protect yourself. It’s a form of self-care that ensures you have enough energy left for the people who actually matter. Stay kind, but stay protected.
  4. Akimikoisthecutest

    Bye guys! See you Monday! 💕

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      Bye!!! Take care!!!!

  5. Akimikoisthecutest
    My problem is that it is getting more and more illegal. My parents are supportive, but it's just illegal to get any transitional therapy. Yeah, I will be making more decisions in the near future.
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    Not really. I don't really count on the fact that I likely won't ever be able to transition
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    I mean kind of. I'm not a real girl. Wow. I hope that I can eventually get to that point.
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    I have. I need to get another job. I just work part time stage crew, so I don't really get paid, I just get paid like 9 times a year... I need another job, but I don't have time. I still associate my old self with my current self. I don't have much of a choice, since I'm out to hardly anyone. I would like to ask, how is it to be out to most everyone.
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    Wut?
  10. Akimikoisthecutest
    Dwayne the block johnson I'm sorry. I had to
  11. Akimikoisthecutest
    it's kinda me ......eeeehhhh......
  12. Akimikoisthecutest
    It's fine. I suppose it's better to hear from you, then her, I guess.
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    I mean, yeah. I guess.
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    Yeah, I guess...
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    I don't think that she would ever want to date me.
  16. Akimikoisthecutest
    aaaaaaa
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    Does it? Idk, we kind of know each other. We sit right by each other in a number of classes.
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    Maybe? Idk, we're both pretty shy around each other, so it's hard to tell
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    Yeah I guess so. I'm not a girl
  20. Akimikoisthecutest
    We cannot let the treasure rumor fly
  21. Akimikoisthecutest
    Yeah. I guess, I don't know her super well, so I'm worried she would reject me and out me.
  22. Akimikoisthecutest
    No do not! Everybody listen closely See how this bag is closed?
  23. Akimikoisthecutest
    Yeah, I kinda am. They are Yeah ig. yeah I know True yeah ig
  24. Akimikoisthecutest
    Something dangerous, Friends we mustn't lag It's treasure
  25. Akimikoisthecutest
    Idk, I think they're a lesbian.
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