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  1. This is coming from someone who is also bad at just talking, so take it with all the grains of salt.

    One thing that might help would be to, as you come up with stuff when they're not asking, make a list of words or short sentences that remind you of stories you can tell or things you can say. Or things that are completely unrelated to whatever in their mind they need distracting from that you can ask them about.

    Another option would be to talk about books you've read recently or something you saw or heard that was funny/interesting/aggravating.

    How well would telling them a folktale or something work?

    You could look up a huge amount of stuff about something random (like cheese) just so you can tell them about it.

    I really don't know, these are just ideas I had.

  2. 17 hours ago, Anguished_One said:

    A: You're too young

    B: You aren't allowed

    C:. There aren't any good partners in Texas

    D:. you're an introvert

    E: You have trauma or ptsd associated with finding a partner

    F: You're scared of the gender you're attracted to

    G: All of the above

    H: None of the above

    Halfway D, halfway (mostly a joke) F, mostly just that I tend to not start conversations with people I don't already partially know.

  3. It makes sense.

    TUA/Cash are V/E and TUA flipped V, so clearly Cash is Elim. At this point he's just openwolfing in thread.

    Weaver isn't following the plan to flip Cash, and Wierdo is, so clearly Weaver isn't acting in the village's interest - we as the village CANNOT vote for different people or we die.

    Also, Cash is voting Wierdo, and saying it won't be a coinflip exe if one of the villagers switches to voting Wierdo. Thus, the elims are the two people currently (and permanently, likely) voting on Wierdo.

  4. It's just about The Game. The one that you lose whenever you remember it.

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    I am not entirely caught up yet, but I do have some thoughts.

    TUA/Cash are probably not E/E (I know, this is obvious to everyone else, just let me get my thoughts down.)

    Weaver/Wierdo are (probably) not E/E

    I'm leaning village on Aet.

    I'm leaning a bit elim on Weaver and TUA, but the reason I'm leaning elim on Weaver is likely NAI. (things changed while I was typing this up.)

    TUA said to vote Cash and that he'd explain later. This could be to get us to lylo (where e!TUA would probably win,) and I don't like that idea.

    From what I've seen, even with homework and school Wierdo is being quieter than I'd expect. (Maybe that's just because he's better at managing priorities and such than I was when I first started playing SE in school *shrug*) Also, often SE has a way of taking over your brain space whether or not you want it to if you're checking it enough.

    Edit (sorry): I suppose if TUA and Cash were e/e, TUA would not be trying to die on the "Kill Cash!" hill.

  5. 8 hours ago, Lightweaver2 said:

    I’m a little confused by this, as I’ve never treated someone I like similarly to a sibling. Is that what you’re saying or am I just reading it very poorly?

     

    7 hours ago, Aeoryi said:

    Don't understand the question, could you clarify?

     

    Most of the interactions I have had with boys I'm friends with have been with my brothers or cousins. Maybe that just means I've had a weird life.

    I'm trying to figure out the non-physical differences in how the interactions should be because the physical ones are obvious and nobody ever really talks about the mental/emotional/social/intellectual/whatever-other-not-physical-types-of differences in how the interactions should be.

    Should I tease him and talk to him and treat him and support him and encourage him and worry about his problems and try to help him and fight with him like I would one of my brothers? Or differently? If differently, how?

    In trying to understand this all it doesn't help that I kind of stunted my own social and emotional growth. That's probably why I need this help.

    (Oh also, this is specifically in regards to someone who likes spending time with me and probably knows I like spending time with him.)

  6. Semi-awkward question I would really like an answer to:

    In the non-physical ways, how ought one treat someone they like* differently than they ought to** treat a sibling***?

    Spoiler

    *specifically boys for me but really anyone of an attractive gender because I'm not the only one here and I'm probably not the only one who would like an answer

    **Ought to or actually do, both probably work (especially if said-example-sibling in question is one you generally enjoy spending time around)

    ***Again, specifically a brother for me but really any sibling

     

  7. Part of why I'm going with just "Christians" is because we believe in Christ, just like the other Christian groups do, and I would rather emphasize that most-important similarity than emphasize all the different pieces that are different and that many others don't fully understand. Yes, there are things we believe differently from other Christian groups, but we all believe that Christ lived then and lives now, He loves us, He died for our sins, and because of Him we can live with God again.

    @Ookla the Silver (this isn't an RP, you don't have to speak in quote boxes.)

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