Nathrangking
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I find myself being swallowed by guilt that I may or may not have earned. In the short version I had a falling out with someone years ago. I had considered them a friend for years. 5 years ago I discovered multiple times that instead of communicating with me she preferred to play the victim whenever I would try and get a handle on our friendship. See I though I had a crush on her and truth be told our friendship was tenuous. I later realized that this was not the case. However, she was dismissive of me and what I had to say. Things eventually boiled over and she said things that attacked me. This pattern proved so toxic that I blocked her and moved on. Early this week she messaged from a new social media account. I deleted the message and blocked the new account. Since then I have felt partially guilty. Maybe I was right maybe I was wrong, but my guilt seems to linger.
As always thanks for listening.
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Well are you just telling us, or are you hinting that you want advice?
Regardless, I'm giving advice! That's my job, I'm moral support woo!
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So you blocked this person 4-5 years ago, and haven't heard much since, is what I'm hearing. So... I'd unblock the new account and at least listen for a little bit. Try and give her a second chance. After all, it's been 5 years. If she shows hints that she hasn't changed, block her with no guilt. But if she seems changed and different, then... well, it's up to you after that.
Hope I helped, and I'm sorry you feel like that. I know exactly how you feel.
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