I have a problem with the 'I don't see the world this way so it means it's badly written', or 'I never met a person like this so it's badly written. And especially with using 'beta' as a serious term. I just cringed hard reading it. And women are not hive-mind, there is no way 'women are like', every person is their own world. I think your dislike has more to do with the way you see the world than with how character is written.