2) The way the Shardblade kills living beings with eyes shriveling up and smoking, its reminiscent of a hellish weapon
if you read the first couple of sentences in WoK it says "Kalak rounded a rocky stone ridge and stumbled to a stop before the body of a dying thunderclast. The enormous stone beast lay on its side, riblike protrusions from its chest broken and cracked." the shardblades were made for fighting the voidbringers and beasts like the thunderclast. the shardblades needed to be able to cut through anything. im guessing that the eyes shriveling up and smoking is just a side effect. might be a side effect of the shardblades being cursed from the radiants going against their oaths.
im sorry, its a good theory, but the evidence that you have provided just doesn't prove it.