Shatter He/Him Posted June 2 Posted June 2 Just now, Conure1243 said: Wats so bad abt ot? you evil, evil man
Aeoryi she/her Posted June 2 Posted June 2 Just now, Usseewa said: u can just change at same time ok sowwy Haven't actually ran into any problems with deadname being on ID or whatever most people respect my chosen name. But I'm not out to like, everyone yet
6 7 ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted June 2 Author Posted June 2 Just now, Conure1243 said: Wats so bad abt ot? das ez 2 re3d soniz that
GG0z He/Him Posted June 2 Posted June 2 Just now, Usseewa said: das ez 2 re3d soniz that ITUYTUYHBIVTUYRYSYIGTHUOIJkl;nlbvuisto;ihp;rl’k;kvc;jnlhiyuR Just now, Conure1243 said: Hehe You act like a brother to me
Shatter He/Him Posted June 2 Posted June 2 1 minute ago, GG0z said: You act like a brother to me awwwwww
Conure1243 He/Him Posted June 2 Posted June 2 2 minutes ago, GG0z said: You act like a brother to me Like I said, you remind me of my brother! 1
Shatter He/Him Posted June 2 Posted June 2 Conure and cgoz are now canonically brothers on the Shard 2
6 7 ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted June 2 Author Posted June 2 does people feel as though @Aeoryi that even though you're out to people and they respect you or try as best they can or whatever, you feel like they still treat you like... who they used to or the gender you're not? I got called "buddy" and "man" and "dude" which can be gender-neutral but still i didn't/don't like it that much, especially "buddy" because... it's masculine imo. And "man" is just a reminder. and then like other stuff too...
GG0z He/Him Posted June 2 Posted June 2 1 minute ago, Conure1243 said: Like I said, you remind me of my brother! I don’t have a brother… nvm! I do now!!
Shatter He/Him Posted June 2 Posted June 2 Just now, Usseewa said: does people feel as though @Aeoryi that even though you're out to people and they respect you or try as best they can or whatever, you feel like they still treat you like... who they used to or the gender you're not? I got called "buddy" and "man" and "dude" which can be gender-neutral but still i didn't/don't like it that much, especially "buddy" because... it's masculine imo. And "man" is just a reminder. and then like other stuff too... i apologize in advance if I call you bud or dude.
Conure1243 He/Him Posted June 2 Posted June 2 Just now, Shatter said: Conure and cgoz are now canonically brothers on the Shard Okeyday then!
Through The Living Star She/Her Posted June 2 Posted June 2 AHHGHGHGHGHGH WHY THE SPELLING ERRORS THEY HURT ME Which makes it so much worse when I have spelling errors of my own... 1
GG0z He/Him Posted June 2 Posted June 2 1 minute ago, Usseewa said: does people feel as though @Aeoryi that even though you're out to people and they respect you or try as best they can or whatever, you feel like they still treat you like... who they used to or the gender you're not? I got called "buddy" and "man" and "dude" which can be gender-neutral but still i didn't/don't like it that much, especially "buddy" because... it's masculine imo. And "man" is just a reminder. and then like other stuff too... I don’t know what it feels like, but many of my friends are non-binary, and they get a bit angry when they are dead named, or someone misgenders them. I Just now, Through The Living Star said: AHHGHGHGHGHGH WHY THE SPELLING ERRORS THEY HURT ME Which makes it so much worse when I have spelling errors of my own... THANK YOU
6 7 ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted June 2 Author Posted June 2 Just now, Shatter said: i apologize in advance if I call you bud or dude. tanks it's also IRL and i dread someone commenting on my physical more masculine attributes like.. im kinda on the taller side and people comment on my height sometimes and i dont like it cuz yeah there are tall girls/women but ive always associated it with male
Verdance he/him Posted June 2 Posted June 2 7 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: I'll probably keep my middle name because it's some "first son" kinda crem dung or something but I'll do that when I'm ready I have one of those too its only half crem dung though im kind of fond of it even though its dorky
Aeoryi she/her Posted June 2 Posted June 2 1 minute ago, Usseewa said: does people feel as though @Aeoryi that even though you're out to people and they respect you or try as best they can or whatever, you feel like they still treat you like... who they used to or the gender you're not? I got called "buddy" and "man" and "dude" which can be gender-neutral but still i didn't/don't like it that much, especially "buddy" because... it's masculine imo. And "man" is just a reminder. and then like other stuff too... yes, but gentle reminders are enough to help them realize that they need to stop "holding back" to be honest. Sometimes confrontation is needed, but I prefer to do that in a way where the individual doesn't feel resentment and I don't feel at a disadvantage.
6 7 ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted June 2 Author Posted June 2 Just now, GG0z said: don’t know what it feels like, but many of my friends are non-binary, and they get a bit angry when they are dead named, or someone misgenders them. indeed i do people close to me still do it occasionally..
Shatter He/Him Posted June 2 Posted June 2 Just now, Through The Living Star said: AHHGHGHGHGHGH WHY THE SPELLING ERRORS THEY HURT ME Which makes it so much worse when I have spelling errors of my own... I don't see any spelling errors. Whatever do yuo mean?
6 7 ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted June 2 Author Posted June 2 Just now, Aeoryi said: yes, but gentle reminders are enough to help them realize that they need to stop "holding back" to be honest. Sometimes confrontation is needed, but I prefer to do that in a way where the individual doesn't feel resentment and I don't feel at a disadvantage. wdym? "=§}€×=^[✓£®}]" "holding back"?
GG0z He/Him Posted June 2 Posted June 2 Huh. I know someone whose middle name is Northrop (I got permission from them to post it)
Shatter He/Him Posted June 2 Posted June 2 1 minute ago, Verdance said: I have one of those too its only half crem dung though im kind of fond of it even though its dorky As do I. But mine is cooler. It makes my name become a really cool name when translated to English.
Aeoryi she/her Posted June 2 Posted June 2 1 minute ago, Verdance said: I have one of those too its only half crem dung though im kind of fond of it even though its dorky tbh it doesn't matter I'm not their firstborn son anymore.
Conure1243 He/Him Posted June 2 Posted June 2 (edited) 3 minutes ago, GG0z said: THANK YOU Prhaps I shuls start tlking like splling mon from cns of tuna? OH! Here's a fun fact. My middle name is a fulfilment of literal prophecy! Not much elaboration I can do online Edited June 2 by Conure1243
GG0z He/Him Posted June 2 Posted June 2 1 minute ago, Usseewa said: indeed i do people close to me still do it occasionally.. I do it when I am really tired… They understand, but still makes me feel horrible
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