Trans Hangout Thread

[Akimikoisthecutest]

*sigh* Does anyone else have a problem with wearing shorts? I think it's because I haven't shaved my legs....

[Aeoryi she/her]

3 hours ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

*sigh* Does anyone else have a problem with wearing shorts? I think it's because I haven't shaved my legs....

I do not wear shorts because I shave my legs and I don't want other people to notice

[Usseewa ✾ She♡They ✾]

23 hours ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

*sigh* Does anyone else have a problem with wearing shorts? I think it's because I haven't shaved my legs....

I used to detest wearing them, but did so reluctantly when necessary.

I don't remember when the last time I wore them was, before I started wearing them again like a week ago. Honestly I can't just go around in a hoodie and long pants when it's hot summer...

I think I didn't like wearing them because of unshaved legs, yes. And/or the type of shorts (the ones I had were more... masculine.)

Now, I shaved my legs and am wearing shorts!

Still a bit uncomfortable but for the most part I love them

[Akimikoisthecutest]

On 6/13/2026 at 2:03 PM, Usseewa said:

I used to detest wearing them, but did so reluctantly when necessary.

I don't remember when the last time I wore them was, before I started wearing them again like a week ago. Honestly I can't just go around in a hoodie and long pants when it's hot summer...

I think I didn't like wearing them because of unshaved legs, yes. And/or the type of shorts (the ones I had were more... masculine.)

Now, I shaved my legs and am wearing shorts!

Still a bit uncomfortable but for the most part I love them

Nice!

On 6/12/2026 at 5:44 PM, Aeoryi said:

I do not wear shorts because I shave my legs and I don't want other people to notice

Fair. I don't shave my legs but I really want to....

[Aeoryi she/her]

43 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Nice!

Fair. I don't shave my legs but I really want to....

Then you should!

[Akimikoisthecutest]

13 hours ago, Aeoryi said:

Then you should!

I don't think that I could.... First, I couldn't get away with it because everyone around me would notice... Second, I would absolutely be subjected to a lot of questions if I did get caught.

[Aeoryi she/her]

20 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

I don't think that I could.... First, I couldn't get away with it because everyone around me would notice... Second, I would absolutely be subjected to a lot of questions if I did get caught.

mmmm people tend not to notice small things like that. especially if you're younger.

 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡They ✾]

ok so.. its been like what a month or so sonce I started hrt? and oh ado please help

i cant tell if its doing me good or not or if its good or bad or i like it etc or not ...

i cant tell how i feel about the minimal-but-noticeable-for-me breast growth (basically the only change I've noticed, that's easy to notice without overthinking). Why do I sometimes feel panic from it? Why haven't i really been able/allowed myself to cry recently? Sometimes tears almost arrive but i shove them down. Sometimes I like the idea of guys or being one and other times i look in the mirror like "omg yay im a girl !!"

sometimes i just fear i like one gender or the other (not in terms of sexuality. Well... that too but that's another topic i think)

but like if hrt isnt for me it hopefully isnt too late but id need to know you know?

and how do i know if it is?

[Aeoryi she/her]

On 6/22/2026 at 6:34 PM, Usseewa said:

ok so.. its been like what a month or so sonce I started hrt? and oh ado please help

i cant tell if its doing me good or not or if its good or bad or i like it etc or not ...

i cant tell how i feel about the minimal-but-noticeable-for-me breast growth (basically the only change I've noticed, that's easy to notice without overthinking). Why do I sometimes feel panic from it? Why haven't i really been able/allowed myself to cry recently? Sometimes tears almost arrive but i shove them down. Sometimes I like the idea of guys or being one and other times i look in the mirror like "omg yay im a girl !!"

sometimes i just fear i like one gender or the other (not in terms of sexuality. Well... that too but that's another topic i think)

but like if hrt isnt for me it hopefully isnt too late but id need to know you know?

and how do i know if it is?

well this is something you should talk to a professional or your HRT provider about. It's not too late to stop, and given the description of changes if you chose to stop you'd likely not have many permanent changes

it's important you be transparent with some person, whether that be a therapist or a endocrinologist, because they can help you figure out whether continuing HRT is the right decision for you or not. 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡They ✾]

12 hours ago, Aeoryi said:

well this is something you should talk to a professional or your HRT provider about. It's not too late to stop, and given the description of changes if you chose to stop you'd likely not have many permanent changes

it's important you be transparent with some person, whether that be a therapist or a endocrinologist, because they can help you figure out whether continuing HRT is the right decision for you or not. 

im scared

about what I am, cuz I don't know.

ive been thinking about it more, lately. kinda. thinking about what i might be. and i dont know. i dont know what i want, or what makes me happy or sad or anything. i guess the only thing is lately ive been very sad and/or angry.

i dont know who i want to be besides not me.

i dont want to not want hrt though..

cuz ugh cuz what if that meand im not trans when i thought thats what i was and then what am i?

[Aeoryi she/her]

1 hour ago, Usseewa said:

im scared

about what I am, cuz I don't know.

ive been thinking about it more, lately. kinda. thinking about what i might be. and i dont know. i dont know what i want, or what makes me happy or sad or anything. i guess the only thing is lately ive been very sad and/or angry.

i dont know who i want to be besides not me.

i dont want to not want hrt though..

cuz ugh cuz what if that meand im not trans when i thought thats what i was and then what am i?

I understand not wanting to not want hrt. but it isn't a rite of passage for being trans in any way. I know trans people who've never taken hrt over the course of their transition and I know trans people who were taking hrt who stopped because it didn't feel right for them

Ultimately hrt is just a tool that if you don't want you can definitely not want it and that will have no bearing on you