Trans Hangout Thread

[Verdance he/him]

Also i rate sh as:

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Superficial injuries: barely off limits

death: mostly off limits

Permanent injury to body: very off limits

So the idea of having a broken body is sad to me

 

2 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

uwu wat makes ya say that

Actually, I have no idea.

Edited April 21 by Verdance

[Adonalsium Will Return He/him]

Some kid at my school said today (we were taking a questionnaire) “Why are there different boxes for sex and gender? Aren’t those the same thing?” *doesn’t want to find facepalm emoji*

[Verdance he/him]

Just now, Adonalsium Will Return said:

Some kid at my school said today (we were taking a questionnaire) “Why are there different boxes for sex and gender? Aren’t those the same thing?” *doesn’t want to find facepalm emoji*

I don’t blame him. He’s wrong, but I don’t blame him.

[Adonalsium Will Return He/him]

1 minute ago, Verdance said:

I don’t blame him. He’s wrong, but I don’t blame him.

Wait, why? I’m confused.

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

1 minute ago, Verdance said:

Also i rate sh as:

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Superficial injuries: barely off limits

death: mostly off limits

Permanent injury to body: very off limits

So the idea of having a broken body is sad to me

 

i have no idea actually 

idk what any of that means but

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by broken i didn't mean in the usual sense

idk how to explain it

but...

like imagine if u were just barely surviving

and it was incredibly painful

or even not painful just dulled or numb

but..

like imagine getting stabbed and bleeding out but u still survive but

 

..........

hehe

 

[Verdance he/him]

Just now, Usseewa said:

idk what any of that means but

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by broken i didn't mean in the usual sense

idk how to explain it

but...

like imagine if u were just barely surviving

and it was incredibly painful

or even not painful just dulled or numb

but..

like imagine getting stabbed and bleeding out but u still survive but

 

..........

hehe

 

Yes that sounds awful and i don’t want that

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My SH has always manifested as a form of curiosity or thinking that SH brings some sort of salvation. I don’t want to suffer, I might want to not exist but not in a suicidal way. I dont want my friends to suffer either

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[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

1 minute ago, Verdance said:

Yes that sounds awful and i don’t want that

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My SH has always manifested as a form of curiosity or thinking that SH brings some sort of salvation. I don’t want to suffer, I might want to not exist but not in a suicidal way. I dont want my friends to suffer either

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oh i want to suffer but idk why or if I actually do

but i want to do stuff

that i shouldn't

 

I've already...

done...

not SH..

not really...

but....

stuff kinda

 

[Verdance he/him]

2 minutes ago, Adonalsium Will Return said:

Wait, why? I’m confused.

Idk trans lore or something, gender is like, no one knows, but sex is who you are attracted to i dont storming know

but i grew up in a hyper Christian community, still live in one, didn’t learn that trans or gay people even existed until middle school and didn’t accept that it was okay until… several months ago. So i understand people who don’t know about all that. 

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

11 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

ikr

but it's true

also cut Izzy some slack, she's only 15

kids am i raight????

it's trueeee

hhaa uwu

i mean like at the moment I don't rlly care abt myself but usually i want to live just now i don't care if my body got

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broken

 

No don’t cut me slack just love yourself it possible me hate self, me stop hate self, me love self sometime

7 minutes ago, Adonalsium Will Return said:

Some kid at my school said today (we were taking a questionnaire) “Why are there different boxes for sex and gender? Aren’t those the same thing?” *doesn’t want to find facepalm emoji*

OMG YOUR SO LUCKY TAKE ME TO YOUR SCHOOL

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

1 minute ago, Verdance said:

Idk trans lore or something, gender is like, no one knows, but sex is who you are attracted to i dont storming know

but i grew up in a hyper Christian community, still live in one, didn’t learn that trans or gay people even existed until middle school and didn’t accept that it was okay until… several months ago. So i understand people who don’t know about all that. 

actually sexuality is who you're attracted to

i think sex is like biological sex maybe

I'll have tolook it up 

[Verdance he/him]

Just now, Usseewa said:

actually sexuality is who you're attracted to

i think sex is like biological sex maybe

I'll have tolook it up 

But no one knows what gender is lol

theres probably an answer but not really, since its so subjective 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

2 minutes ago, Verdance said:

But no one knows what gender is lol

theres probably an answer but not really, since its so subjective 

i mean...

i think we sort of do know

even if it can be somehwat hard to define or switches definitiosn betwenen people

[Adonalsium Will Return He/him]

11 hours ago, Honors cognitive shadow said:

OMG YOUR SO LUCKY TAKE ME TO YOUR SCHOOL

Wait, what? What’s lucky about that?

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

50 minutes ago, Adonalsium Will Return said:

Wait, what? What’s lucky about that?

That your school lets kids pick their gender and let’s it be seperate from their sex my school would NEVER lolll

[Akimikoisthecutest]

15 minutes ago, Honors cognitive shadow said:

That your school lets kids pick their gender and let’s it be seperate from their sex my school would NEVER lolll

Yeah, I find that crazy lucky. My school is so homophobic....

[Aeoryi she/her]

1 hour ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Yeah, I find that crazy lucky. My school is so homophobic....

My school is the definition of performative ally thing basically 

[Ink and Embers Any pronouns]

My school makes token accommodations for the one out trans person and continues to ignore all feedback from the Pride Club. 

On the plus side, one of the first things that happened to me when I visited the school I'm changing to was that someone let me hug a Blahaj, so hopefully it's cool

15 hours ago, Adonalsium Will Return said:

Some kid at my school said today (we were taking a questionnaire) “Why are there different boxes for sex and gender? Aren’t those the same thing?” *doesn’t want to find facepalm emoji*

Sex is biological characteristics 

Gender is you yourself, not your body. It's some mixture of social/mental/born with

When your gender and sex don't match up, you're trans 

Sexuality is what gender(s) you are attracted to, often used to encompass both sexual and romantic attraction but technically technically speaking is just sexual attraction 

Romantic orientation is what gender(s) you experience romantic attraction to

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

Anyone else feel... idk what words describe it... but bad when someone in public misgenders you

it just makes me feel like ... just.. bad. worse than i already felt if i was feeling depressed. makes me feel awkward and horrible and . .. ignored kind of ... like they base it on my looks or my voice... and i just... that shouldn't be it...

 

anyone else feel like crying when someone else is hurting cuz you feel their pain?

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

3 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

Anyone else feel... idk what words describe it... but bad when someone in public misgenders you

it just makes me feel like ... just.. bad. worse than i already felt if i was feeling depressed. makes me feel awkward and horrible and . .. ignored kind of ... like they base it on my looks or my voice... and i just... that shouldn't be it...

 

anyone else feel like crying when someone else is hurting cuz you feel their pain?

Yes and yes

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

8 minutes ago, Honors cognitive shadow said:

Yes and yes

I've realized that i see myself as a girl at this point, and i know i am. I'm surprised and... disgusted, in a way... when people think I'm not. sure i guess it makes sense but it feels like it shouldn't. like isn't it obvious I'm a girl? it should be...

[Aeoryi she/her]

52 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

Anyone else feel... idk what words describe it... but bad when someone in public misgenders you

it just makes me feel like ... just.. bad. worse than i already felt if i was feeling depressed. makes me feel awkward and horrible and . .. ignored kind of ... like they base it on my looks or my voice... and i just... that shouldn't be it...

it's reflective of the person not reflective of you, so I feel irritation when someone misgenders or mispronouns me.

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anyone else feel like crying when someone else is hurting cuz you feel their pain?

Yes but that's unrelated 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

9 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

it's reflective of the person not reflective of you, so I feel irritation when someone misgenders or mispronouns me.

Yes but that's unrelated 

yeah i wasn't saying it's related i was just saying in general

[Aeoryi she/her]

9 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

yeah i wasn't saying it's related i was just saying in general

Yeah

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

22 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

Yeah

why does it sting a little after i scratch myself a bit with my sharp broken nails?

[Aeoryi she/her]

7 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

why does it sting a little after i scratch myself a bit with my sharp broken nails?

Because you're inflicting pain on yourself.