Akimikoisthecutest Posted January 24 Posted January 24 16 minutes ago, Theory said: Yeah... Maybe when u get to a new school? Or if you decide to come out. You can also maybe just use your chosen name. Like if ur teachers ask students what name to use. Idk. Yeah... That's my plan, but my classmates are pretty dumb and would require a reason. I doubt I'd be able to come out comfortably because where I live is pretty conservative.
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 24 Author Posted January 24 Just now, Akimikoisthecutest said: because where I live is pretty conservative. Oof... 1 minute ago, Akimikoisthecutest said: my classmates are pretty dumb and would require a reason. Ugh... hmmm. I'ma see if I can look up some advice lol.
Akimikoisthecutest Posted January 24 Posted January 24 1 minute ago, Theory said: Ugh... hmmm. I'ma see if I can look up some advice lol. Thanks!
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 24 Author Posted January 24 (edited) 16 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said: Thanks! https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/guide/the-coming-out-handbook/ So, this might help. It seems like it has some basic overview at the start (of sexual orientation, gender, etc.), but looks like some good stuff afterward. Also...do you know if your school is pro-LQBTQ+? Like, do they have a pride flag? Can you find their policies and stuff anywhere? Like online? Do they have a website or anything? Email signatures? Etc. etc. I...honestly my parents might be able to give better advice than me, but I probably wouldn't come out if it would make you uncomfortable/unsafe. I mean...have you tried talking to your parents? What do they think of using your chosen name? If you've told them. They might also be able to help you, idk. Depends. Maybe not. Maybe yes. Lol that's vague.  edit: here's another: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/gender-identity/transgender/coming-out-trans I actually found the whole PlannedParenthood website rlly useful tbh. At least in the first day or two of questioning. Edited January 24 by Theory
Akimikoisthecutest Posted January 24 Posted January 24 2 minutes ago, Theory said: Also...do you know if your school is pro-LQBTQ+? Like, do they have a pride flag? Can you find their policies and stuff anywhere? Like online? Do they have a website or anything? Email signatures? Etc. etc. yeah, our school has an anti bullying policy and a GSA and that's it. It's kind of sad, but we all have our own corner of the school where we all meet up every morning. 3 minutes ago, Theory said: I...honestly my parents might be able to give better advice than me, but I probably wouldn't come out if it would make you uncomfortable/unsafe. I mean...have you tried talking to your parents? What do they think of using your chosen name? If you've told them. They might also be able to help you, idk. Depends. Maybe not. Maybe yes. Lol that's vague. I haven't really talked to them. They don't know I'm trans :(
Akimikoisthecutest Posted January 24 Posted January 24 44 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: Advocating for oneself is extremely difficult This is true
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted January 24 Posted January 24 1 hour ago, Aeoryi said: Advocating for oneself is extremely difficult Yes
Akimikoisthecutest Posted January 24 Posted January 24 I'm actually worried that my school will find out. I've downloaded a ton of trans fem memes onto my school chromebook without thinking... We'll see how it goes...
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 24 Author Posted January 24 1 minute ago, Akimikoisthecutest said: I'm actually worried that my school will find out. I've downloaded a ton of trans fem memes onto my school chromebook without thinking... We'll see how it goes... Well...you can delete them if you're worried. If you think you'd be unsafe if they did find out, I'd delete them. If you secretly want them to find out, you can keep them if u want. Either way, keep or delete them if u want.
Akimikoisthecutest Posted January 24 Posted January 24 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Theory said: Well...you can delete them if you're worried. If you think you'd be unsafe if they did find out, I'd delete them. If you secretly want them to find out, you can keep them if u want. Either way, keep or delete them if u want. I don't think they can legally tell anyone not on their staff, so it should be fine. Edit: My last words ⏠Edited January 24 by Akimikoisthecutest 2
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 24 Author Posted January 24 (edited) 1 minute ago, Akimikoisthecutest said: I don't think they can legally tell anyone not on their staff, so it should be fine. Depends what them and the staff is like... Also u never know...staff don't always follow/know the rules. Edited January 24 by Theory
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 25 Author Posted January 25 (edited) 4 hours ago, Akimikoisthecutest said: AAAAAAAAAAAA WHY ARE EGG_IRL MEMES SO RELATABLE?!?!?! IDK THEY JUST AREEEE AT LEAST THIS ONE: Spoiler I LITERALLY RELATE TO ALMOST ALL OF THEM ON THAT ONE. INCLUDING THE ONE I SCRIBBLED OUT. tho idk if they just chose stuff that everyone relates to or not *shrug* BUT SRSLY  (all four are the same, just reordered) (Also how do they know me so well lol) Spoiler  Edited January 25 by Theory
Akimikoisthecutest Posted January 25 Posted January 25 (edited) Alright should I post all the ones I've found today? I think I will get ready this will take a while CW: Swearing, some light content warnings (mentions) Spoiler   Edit: You do have to edit your posts after the fact so you can put them in a spoiler tag. Edit 2: the one about the AroAce Tgirl is literally me Edit 3: I found all of these today... Edited January 25 by Akimikoisthecutest 2
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 25 Author Posted January 25 @Akimikoisthecutest please but those all in a spoiler tag, if possible
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 25 Author Posted January 25 5 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said: Alright should I post all the ones I've found today? I think I will get ready this will take a while CW: Swearing, some light content warnings (mentions)  Reveal hidden contents   Edit: You do have to edit your posts after the fact so you can put them in a spoiler tag. Edit 2: the one about the AroAce Tgirl is literally me Girl those are sooo good lol. 1 minute ago, Aeoryi said:   Reveal hidden contents  Reveal hidden contents  I gotta repost the image then :3 Spoiler Â
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 25 Posted January 25 5 minutes ago, Theory said: Girl those are sooo good lol. I gotta repost the image then :3  Hide contents  It's true it happened to me
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 25 Author Posted January 25 Just now, Aeoryi said: It's true it happened to me Did u order those cat ears? Also...uhm...do u guys relate to the bingo stuff i sent? specifically some of the spaces... *nervous hehe*...
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 25 Posted January 25 1 minute ago, Theory said: Did u order those cat ears? Also...uhm...do u guys relate to the bingo stuff i sent? specifically some of the spaces... *nervous hehe*... Not yet, but my brother said he can get them for me for free 75% of the spaces yeah Â
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 25 Author Posted January 25 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: Not yet, but my brother said he can get them for me for free 75% of the spaces yeah  ...which...ones...? i just wanna know if u all relate to what i do too.. its fine if u dont wanna say tbh i mean im a wee bit reluctant Edited January 25 by Theory
Akimikoisthecutest Posted January 25 Posted January 25 1 minute ago, Theory said: which...ones... Pretty much all of them. Should I be concerned about the one that got scribbled out?
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 25 Author Posted January 25 (edited) 8 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said: Pretty much all of them. Should I be concerned about the one that got scribbled out? I mean...I scribbled it out cuz it might not be appropriate for the Shard, if you catch my drift.  edit: look at the post count. @Hmmm lies @Akimikoisthecutest Spoiler  Edited January 25 by Theory 1
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 25 Posted January 25 9 minutes ago, Theory said: ...which...ones...? i just wanna know if u all relate to what i do too.. its fine if u dont wanna say tbh i mean im a wee bit reluctant Okay Spoiler Ones in yellow are sorta true  1
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 25 Author Posted January 25 (edited) 4 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: Okay  Reveal hidden contents Ones in yellow are sorta true  Omg that's basically the same as me (phew) Spoiler The underlined one is kinda-maybe. The question mark is idrk what it means. The circled green+yellow = i think also... what's girls night? Edited January 25 by Theory
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