My wife has autism, too, and I married her. In fact, during high school, I took her to her senior prom. When other boys were afraid to take her because of her mental illness. I say this, coming from being left behind by my biological father. Be there for your children. Think of that all the time now since both my dads are gone (i was adopted.)
I have finished a short story about my rescue dog that is told through her eyes. That was a lot of fun to write.
Its just dealing with the sins of my forefathers, and the ruin they left behind. Picking up the pieces and trying to make some sort of life out of what I have been given. Which i know is a lot, my worldview is christian and God has guided me through so much mess. Lifted me to be a different person, to seek new paths that will lead to building something that will last.
As for my writing, I know I am good, at least people around me say that it is. I know I need to be better to get it to stand out and have a breakthrough. Yet right now writing is a rebellion and I'm just looking for encouragement to get over this brick wall that makes writing hard because of the past.