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  1. 13 minutes ago, SpartanBrigade said:

    To be fair I don’t necessarily see that as romantic or sexual 
    I disagree with the idea that marriage is necessarily the highest form of bond 
    I feel like you can have platonic bonds that are significantly deeper than anything romantic 
    Or at least on par in a different way 
    Feels like that’s how spren-Radiant relationships are 

    Yes bars

    7 minutes ago, Ascended Grubberfly said:

    I am vehemently against it for the bit, and am actually against it because I find that relationships are kinda hit or miss in media and don’t find a point in making them up.

    Kaladin simply needs a supporting friend group, and Syl can be a part of that.

    I guess the main point of my argument is that shipping them feels like you are just shipping them because they are a girl and a boy who are connected deeply, and because they have that connection, 'oh they must be in love'

  2. 52 minutes ago, Factor said:

    Ah, I see. Si it's shipping as a whole you're againts.

    *prepares new argument*

    (spoilered for lenght)

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    I completely accept that. I simply offer that, while I wholeheartedly agree that these relationships don't have to become romantic, that doesn"t mean they have to stay platonic. I offer this from LewsTherinTelescope:

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    Syl resting her head on his shoulder while saying "I want things to change and be the same all at once. Suffice it to say that I want to make it harder for certain people to ignore me." when asked if she wants his treatment of her to change

    (I couldn't find the actual scene)

    as a sign that it doesn't have to stay platonic. The relationship isn't better or worse off if it has romance.

    It isn't shipping I'm against. I think Kim Dokja and Yoo Jonghyuck want to make out far more than there is any reason for it being.

    I just think that Kal and Syl's bond is just so remarkably platonic, and there isn't that much platonic representation in media. Opposite sex (and sometimes same sex) best friends often become romantic, and I think it's nice that for once, they aren't in love because why wouldn't they be. I think that often romance is the standard, and is assumed in most circumstances. Brandon will probably never write any sort of aromantic characters (not that I would expect him too), cause we are just such a small minority. But I like just that little bit of representation of maybe not having the male/female friendship become romantic. I think brandon fully intends for it to stay a friendship, and pushing against that towards a more romantic relationship feels like you are saying "Well one of them is male, the other is female so why wouldn't they be in love?"

    7 minutes ago, Factor said:

    Okay then, it's judt an opinion

    I think that there are very few "wrong" opinions, so i'll just say that if it's something about how it feels, that's how you feel, and i won't try to change that. I leave you in peace now.

     

     

    Also @strmblsd, i summon thee,

    I would say there are some wrong opinions.

    Like, you know, homophobia is technically an opinion

    Not calling this specific opinion wrong, but they do exist.

  3. 7 minutes ago, Factor said:

    A) Radiant spren are people too! Or at least just as sapient and intelligent as humans! I'd say Radiant spren go beyond "abstract concept of reality", even if others might be just that. I find the base of your argument very flawed, that they couldn't possibly be together because they're different... species or whatever.

    B). Let me call attention to the fact you just called Kaladin "some dude". I am offend.

    C) (beginning the actuall argument):

    Their relationship is nuanced, and i find more offence at your... [word] of it. Ima mostly use quote boxes from other threads to cobble together my argument, as my writing doesn't encourage people to agree.

    ...

    Huh this person doesn't have a quote button.

    Oh, i guess you can't quote on a closed for replies.

    Ah well

    I'm going to direct you to the threas this is from,

    To find rebuttals to all of your arguments from people better with words than I.

    And let me remind you, Kansas, that you were once neutral.

     

     

    Ok here let me present my *real* case

    I am aromantic. Yeah sure, most people might not feel things this way because of their differences, but many people do share this perspective I have despite them maybe not being aromantic.

    I do not feel romantic attraction. So instead, I place a lot of value on platonic love. I don't like it being seen as 'lesser', because I just don't see it that way. So the idea that 'oh they are nice to each other so they must be looooooove' is an idea that I hate. I hate it with all my being because I can love people with all my heart and soul, just as friend. So when people ship 2 people (or beings) from which there is absolutely no standard for, I despise it. Because it feels like you are saying, "people can't love like that and just be friends. If 2 people show a healthy relationship, they are either in love or its all a sham". And I don't like that because I don't feel love. So calling all my relationships in which I feel real feelings 'not real' hurts.

  4. 2 hours ago, Factor said:

    SYLADIN!

    If you're somehow stumbling across this as a new user, and can't figure it out, Syladin is the fan ship of Kaladin and Sylphrena.

    And obviously the best one!

    ...

    I don't know what might possibly happen here, but SYLADIN!

    Ok so

    You think

    An abstract concept of reality

    and some dude

    want to make out???????

    31 minutes ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

    YES

    THANK YOU

    EXACTLY

    Yes all that

    BUT ALSO NO SYLADIN

    33 minutes ago, Ascended Grubberfly said:

    YES!

    Wonderful scene, absolute cinema, but KAL NEEDS FRIENDS NOT ROMANCE!

    hi friends, I wish to take a second to remind everyone that we are all friends, and that my screams of rage are part of the bit. I do not wish any bad things upon you, and we are all such good friends.

    NO SYLADIN I BEG.

    guys why am I monologging so much? Please send help.

    YES

    ALSO

    FOR SOME REASON MY HEADCANON SAYS KALADIN IS BI

    AND I THINK THAT MIGHT BE BECAUSE OF KANSAS

  5. 2 hours ago, Ink and Embers said:

    Is this RP still going to happen, and is there anything any of us can do to help if so?

    hmmm

    official statement:

    Hopefully.

    It was a big collaboration between me and Verdance, so it might take a hot second to get it back up n running. I will def need a Co-GM when the time comes along tho

    We will just need to wait and see.

  6. 2 hours ago, Ink and Embers said:

    HI

    ... what's a Sugar Bagel?

    Donuts are a shape, Sugar Bagels are the food.

    2 hours ago, Ascended Grubberfly said:

    @CoderDrag0n8 bagels and donuts actually are different kinds of bread, so it makes sense that they have different names.

    Plus, oranges are orange. Chew on that!

    Nah they are the same.

    FAXTS

    2 hours ago, Factor said:

    *coughs*

    Isn't glass the original one, and all the others were copying her? How could she change her name back if that's always been her name?

    Yeah, she wouldn't.

  7. "Daytime is us closing our eyes and pretending it makes infinity go away"
    - Sun Tzu, The Art of War, https://xkcd.com/2849/

    "The sky is cold and the floor water is too hard to drink. But I have my handcoats and the spacelight is warm. Listen, the flappy planes are beeping in the stick towers." "Those are all the wrong words for those things." "Maybe. But the things themselves are all right, so who cares?"
    - Sun Tzu, The Art of War, https://xkcd.com/1322/

  8. 38 minutes ago, Ascended Grubberfly said:

    Honestly donuts being the exception to the naming convention is hilarious.

    Well, we can't just be calling Sugar Bagels donuts, can we? Donut is a shape, Bagel is a food. It would be like calling a square-shaped desert a 'square'. No, it's a square-shaped desert! Sugar Bagels are donut-shaped.

    41 minutes ago, Levlakv said:

    Yeah I agree with the logic of ‘sugar bagels’ makes sense

    Thank you.

    28 minutes ago, Levlakv said:

    Yeah I thought donut would be a proper name but it’s casted aside

     (side note: I haven’t been online in a year and when I come back I find a glass and pineapple cult, good start)

    A buncha people changed their names to Through The Living [Word]

    I think Glass is one of the last people still there, but she did go inactive which is sad

    anyway

    HI

  9. 3 hours ago, Rynturning_Light said:

    My top three are probably aromantic moodboard, romance is boring (by the Los Campesinos), and cynical fairytale (by Egg)

    I can give more later but I need to listen through my playlist again and I’m doin volunteering rn

    I just fell in love with Cynical Fairytale

  10. 9 minutes ago, Rynturning_Light said:

    huh, good to know. I experience both so we just vibing

    i love that song. I’ve got an entire playlist of just aro-coated music but that one’s definitely the one that sticks in my mind

    …I should make an aro moodboard. I’m surprised it’s taken this long to decide that

    you should tell me all your aro songs

    I don't really have any

  11. Just now, Rynturning_Light said:

    Basically the technical term for someone who only experiences sexual attraction

    allosexual is the opposite of asexual

    I just say I’m aromantic tho and just leave it at that and if they pry then they pry and make it awkward

    I’m pretty sure sensual and sexual attraction are relatively the same thing. Sensual can mean like sexy/sexual so

     

    you should totally listen. It’s a vibe for us aromantics

    I listened to it, it is goated

    But I am pretty sure sensual and sexual are different

    "In the a-spec community, it is often helpful to distinguish sensual attraction from sexual attraction. " - https://lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Sensual_Attraction

    yeah

  12. 3 minutes ago, Rynturning_Light said:

    This is why I don’t typically touch the alloaro label (even tho I’m pretty sure that’s what I am), ‘cause that can bring a whole storm of questions and it’s awkward as hell to answer them usually

    and my close friends are aroace or just ace so I can’t exactly talk about sensual attraction with them without it getting awkward✨

     

    yessss

    like, we aren’t given representation so we will make it

    Also also, have you ever listened to Aromantic Moodboard by max lizanich?

    Tis a vibe

    Alloaro? Oh so just aro yeah I introduce myself as Aromantic and really really really hope they don't notice I specifically didn't say aroace. Cause then it gets really freaking awkward
    Also isn't Sensual and Sexual attraction 2 different things? Sensual is physical touch, while Sexual is the ace one.

    This representation was FORGED IN THE FIRES OF MORDOR
    No, I should thou

  13. 2 hours ago, Rynturning_Light said:

    Bro 😭

    That sucks

    My parents don’t understand aromanticism either, and when I try and explain to them what exactly is up with me it doesn’t go well

    I just let it drop now. Talk about it with my also aro or ace friends and just let it rest. It’s not worth the arguments and misunderstandings and the constant being told “you’re just confused” or “you haven’t met the right person yet” (bleh)

    That last part tho. Ick. People need to back the hell up sometimes (a lot of the time)



    anyways

    any of my aro-spec buddies:

    have yall ever like taken (vague) love songs as platonic? ‘Cause a lot of them have some good messages/lyrics that work with platonic love and I do so enjoy taking them as that

    I am a decently lovey person and I do want to have things that relate to that but there are so many love songs. Might as well pick and choose to my experience as I like, y’know?

    The worst part is that he is one of my close friends I am inviting to my birthday party T^T. And he's AroAce, so him being a part of the queer comunity makes it so much worse T^T

    And yes, the love songs were all written about platonic love, actually I decided.

  14. 5 minutes ago, Ascended Grubberfly said:

    Tress and Elantris spoilers.

    As cool as Aons are, I think that they lack use in combat unless you have a quick hand and remember all the modifiers. Since AonDor can function as a semi coding language, what tools could be built with them?

    Drones with plates carved with instruction, maybe a pair of lock picks?

    Well now I am imagining a crazy invested weapon that nightblood style draws investiture to power it's Aons carved onto the surface to do some crazy sword thing

  15. On 6/10/2026 at 9:02 AM, Ink and Embers said:

    Reyx hesitated. "My human is still in there, somewhere. I need to look for them. Will you be alright, if you run? Is there a safe place you can go?"

    Lux thought for a minute. "I guess I can stay here a bit longer. There is someone I am waiting for."

    Fractal! Go try and find Ebon. Ask him what he wants to do.

    Alright.

    @Ink and Embers @Hoid Slayer

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