Apparently, for me all it took was getting contact lenses. I had been several months since I had gone to a stake dance, and at that point I had been wearing glasses all my life, but I switched, and the next stake dance I went to, 4-5 girls asked me to dance, one asked twice! Seems a little sad, now that I think back on it. I'd rather have a girl see me for who I am, not what I look like ngl