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Yoo, peak show
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Yes, I neeeed some of those myself
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Nothing wrong with spending a lot of time here, especially after one's egg cracks like this.
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Oh wow that's crazy (even if it doesn't work for trans guys)
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That all sounds like euphoria to me. Maybe you are telling yourself to feel good, but I don't think it would work unless you really were trans. Euphoria varies from person to person, and time to time. But that does sound like gender euphoria, I think I've felt similar.
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Just wanted to answer this before I go. Many people here know the story, but I'll tell it again. On March 15th, 2024, I thought I might be a femboy. On March 16th, 2024, when I woke up in the morning, I realized I was a girl. Yes, I'm skipping some details, which I might go over tomorrow, but that's pretty much it. Dysphoria as an egg felt like a complete disconnect from the male gender. I was "a guy" but I never felt like one. I was just "A person who happens to be male". I felt a greater affinity for the female gender, and was somewhat frustrated that I couldn't be a part of it. (I had some incorrect ideas about transness at the time, again, I'll go more in depth later)
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I'm always watching Sorry I couldn't post more today, there's so much I would have wanted to respond to, and I'll try and get to some of it when I can. Btw I couldn't find anything about transmedicalism in the GDB. I don't think it's really a real issue idk.
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(Note, I suspect she does not)
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Don't downplay your achievements, you've done that more than once
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That literally is not proof, trans mascs just say the opposite
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Oh yeah I totally agree, actually. (I don't hate Shallan, but she's not my favorite either) Female main characters will always get me more invested, as a general rule.
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Gender envy is so real Yeah, it was honestly similar with me I think I have more fun writing when I don't add DEI male characters (half joking, I do have more fun, but I realize the quality of my writing suffers. Still, I have like never written about a straight couple).
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I remember, especially in the years leading up to me realizing it, that I was envious of girls. I also would usually choose female characters in video games and write female characters in my writing. I also remember thinking that gender stereotypes were dumb and stupid and bad.
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Looking back, and feeling like you should have realized it earlier.
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Yooo, it's ParaTulip. I see you on the forums arguing with people a lot, and usually agree with said arguments.
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So for me, especially early on, it was like an excitement. I felt it for the first time like 3 days after I realized I was trans. And I felt like "Wow I'm a girl, this is awesome. I'm so glad I'm a girl. I'm so excited that maybe I can really be a girl"
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I don't think there's anything wrong with that, maybe put something in your sig to indicate that you often change your pronouns
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Not that I know of, but it would be theoretically possible to make a browser extension that could switch very quickly. I'd make it except I have no idea how.
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No that used to be so me. I was such an unstable mess lol
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Gender euphoria is so peak
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(I'm sorry, I have a bit of a problem where I have kind of an obsession with the correct terminology, just going to mention that all non-binary/agender people are considered trans, since they identify as a different gender then what was assigned at birth. You can ignore this.) I'm not a gender abolitionist myself, but I understand where the idea comes from. Well if you're worried about being cis, maybe here's yet another good question. (also I think the results of this quiz seem pretty not cis) "If I want to be a girl, why shouldn't I be able to?" Why should "wanting to be a girl" and "being a girl" be any different? Shouldn't everyone have the identity they want to have?
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*shrugs* Sorry if I'm giving you too much pressure, please tell me if you want me to stop. I genuinely don't think that's a possibility anymore. Maybe some people have questioned if they were trans for a few months and decided they weren't, but you have for years. Even if there was like a 1% chance you were cis, one has to understand that that is practically nothing. I'm certain that the negative outcome of it turning out you were cis would not be 99 times worse than the good of what would happen if you transitioned and were trans.
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Agender is a non-binary identity, since it's not either male or female. I believe you. Or, at the very least, I don't think you're enby in the same way I think you're trans. You can figure that stuff out for yourself. Anyway, I hope you realize now, that at the very least, you are clearly not cis, and you should stop stressing about it so much. (Oh and btw I'll investigate the supposed transmedicalism in the gdb later. When I read through the whole thing it seemed like the opposite of transmedicalist.)
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Actually yes, that does fall under dysphoria. It's just social rather than physical I have a friend of mine who up until recently, believed that they were a trans girl, but now considers themself non-binary. They still prefer femininity to masculinity, but doesn't feel comfortable as a boy or a girl. They don't have a label for themselves, but maybe you're feeling something similar. I never said this to anyone in particular, but I did used to think this about trans guys. Somewhere in the middle is still non-binary. Non-binary means not just a guy or just a girl. I understand the hestitence because of enbyphobia. Nothing unreasonable about that. But I don't think it could hurt to think about it, it could be a reason you feel hesitant about being a girl. Like I said before, that enby friend considers themselves less masculine than feminine. And as such, they're taking feminizing HRT still.
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That's strange, there's literally a whole paragraph that's anti-transmedicalism. Maybe this person who said this was pro-transmedicalsm? Because it's scary, I guess. I never doubted myself like you do, but still, I did doubt myself. You ever be in a really humid room, but you don't really notice, but then someone mentions it, and all of a sudden it feels really horrible? It's kinda like that. Gender dysphoria feels a lot worse when you're aware of it. Plus, you're probably going through "male" puberty right now, which is probably making you feel worse about yourself. I get it You say you'd be happy with whatever you picked, and yet you still pick a girl. Maybe it's not an entirely logical question, but I'd say your answer is very trans. Maybe here's a better question. If you were AFAB, would you want to transition into a guy? (Me realizing that the answer to this was no was an early sign of me being trans) And gender presentation can be independent of gender identity. I know a trans tomboy, and I've met trans femboys. There's also the possibility of non-binary identities, but I kinda worried that considering that would just stress you out more. I think a good starting step is accepting you're not cis.
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