It would be helpful if you could quote me so I can see when you respond, thanks.
I don't see how asking for help from your extended family or friends is something that you can't do under a nuclear family structure.
Would you still be ok if they meant to turn all control of children over to a collective instead of their parents?
I think it has to do with the argument that a lot of the problems in the black community would be solved by having a father in the home, but I can't say for certain.
Not sure he knows about it. And he would certainly be against it.