The transition between Dalinar's flashback and the next chapter was so perfect. I felt so betrayed by what I believed was Dalinar murdering a child followed by the epigraph:
Really struck me!
After reading this thread though, I do have some doubts about him murdering the kid, but I don't know! Dalinar was so heartless, I hope this was the start of what started changing him for the better.
Also irritated with the Azish not cooperating with the Alethi, but after the small amount we've seen about Dalinar's past, I guess it makes sense. I think if Gawx had received the same explanation as the Thaylen Queen, they would have been a bit more swayed. But that would be too easy.
Edit: Still struggling to figure out what Dalinar meant, I'm really bothered by it.
I've decided he did kill the boy. He realized that his brother is wrong. Uniting a Kingdom by becoming monsters is wrong, and he can't let Gavilar find out he feels that way.