I should have put the "basically" in another spot in that sentence to modify the word Kelsier rather than married. The marriage part is as real as it gets. (For better, then worse, then better...lather, rinse, repeat! We've completed our shift in the Pit of Hathsin and are in a "for better" phase. ) Maybe I can convince him to join the 17th. Real life and virtual life worlds colliding.... whoa. We would be like world hoppers. I can't take it. My brain just exploded.
Anyway, I never thought I had a "type" until I read Kelsier. Strong, kind, charismatic, and somewhat stubborn but not completely unwilling to see another point of view. He might have been slightly too secretive for my taste, if I really think about it.... but that could have been fixed. Ok /swoon.