Mental health club!

[Bird Furious she/her/un/important]

3 minutes ago, KnightSkye said:

YES IT IS

NO ITS FREAKING NOT ITS OK

[KnightSkye Reforged They/Them]

57 minutes ago, Halcyon The Only said:

NO ITS FREAKING NOT ITS OK

*Firmly disagrees*

[Keke They/he]

I'm might swear an bit. But my life just turned upside down. Maybe i shouldn't say this online but I need solace somewhere and yall have become like my family. And if anytbing I need family. My parents are getting a divorce. I feel like I was stabbed. My family has had Hella issues in the past but it's become so good. I love them all so much but I feel like I was just killed inside. I'm currently at a friend's house cause they help with everything. They said they would still be friends and make sure that some stuff stays normal like out ward at church and school and whatnot. I will try to rp and stuff but that's not a priority. I want stuff to stay somewhat normal so I will be on the shard. 

[strmblsd he/him]

2 minutes ago, Thee insane said:

I'm might swear an bit. But my life just turned upside down. Maybe i shouldn't say this online but I need solace somewhere and yall have become like my family. And if anytbing I need family. My parents are getting a divorce. I feel like I was stabbed. My family has had Hella issues in the past but it's become so good. I love them all so much but I feel like I was just killed inside. I'm currently at a friend's house cause they help with everything. They said they would still be friends and make sure that some stuff stays normal like out ward at church and school and whatnot. I will try to rp and stuff but that's not a priority. I want stuff to stay somewhat normal so I will be on the shard. 

i domt even know what to say. but *soo soo many hugsss* i here for you

Edited January 30, 2025 by strmblsd

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

2 minutes ago, Thee insane said:

I'm might swear an bit. But my life just turned upside down. Maybe i shouldn't say this online but I need solace somewhere and yall have become like my family. And if anytbing I need family. My parents are getting a divorce. I feel like I was stabbed. My family has had Hella issues in the past but it's become so good. I love them all so much but I feel like I was just killed inside. I'm currently at a friend's house cause they help with everything. They said they would still be friends and make sure that some stuff stays normal like out ward at church and school and whatnot. I will try to rp and stuff but that's not a priority. I want stuff to stay somewhat normal so I will be on the shard. 

*huuuuug*

Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry. That's awful . . . 

If you need to talk about something you can always PM me, okay? 

[Keke They/he]

1 minute ago, strmblsd said:

i domt even know what to say. but *soo soo many hugsss* i here for you

Thanks that's all I need you to be

1 minute ago, Through The Living Glass said:

*huuuuug*

Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry. That's awful . . . 

If you need to talk about something you can always PM me, okay? 

thank you so much  

[KnightSkye Reforged They/Them]

14 minutes ago, Thee insane said:

I'm might swear an bit. But my life just turned upside down. Maybe i shouldn't say this online but I need solace somewhere and yall have become like my family. And if anytbing I need family. My parents are getting a divorce. I feel like I was stabbed. My family has had Hella issues in the past but it's become so good. I love them all so much but I feel like I was just killed inside. I'm currently at a friend's house cause they help with everything. They said they would still be friends and make sure that some stuff stays normal like out ward at church and school and whatnot. I will try to rp and stuff but that's not a priority. I want stuff to stay somewhat normal so I will be on the shard. 

*HUG* 

I don't have any advice. I'm sorry.

I know the feeling though, of things being ripped away and turned upside down.

If you want to talk, feel free to PM me. I will listen.

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

14 minutes ago, Thee insane said:

I'm might swear a bit. But my life just turned upside down. Maybe i shouldn't say this online but I need solace somewhere and yall have become like my family. And if anytbing I need family. My parents are getting a divorce. I feel like I was stabbed. My family has had Hella issues in the past but it's become so good. I love them all so much but I feel like I was just killed inside. I'm currently at a friend's house cause they help with everything. They said they would still be friends and make sure that some stuff stays normal like out ward at church and school and whatnot. I will try to rp and stuff but that's not a priority. I want stuff to stay somewhat normal so I will be on the shard. 

I’m so sorry that happened to you here’s as many hugs as possible *hug* *hug*

[Keke They/he]

Just now, KnightSkye said:

*HUG* 

I don't have any advice. I'm sorry.

I know the feeling though, of things being ripped away and turned upside down.

If you want to talk, feel free to PM me. I will listen.

Thanks so much. Just knowing people care is enough.

Just now, Heraldoflove said:

I’m so sorry that happened to you here’s as many hugs as possible *hug* *hug*

*huuggg*

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

18 minutes ago, Thee insane said:

Thanks that's all I need you to be

thank you so much  

Of course 

[strmblsd he/him]

9 minutes ago, Thee insane said:

Thanks so much. Just knowing people care is enough.

*huuggg*

of course i, we care! your my and our friend!!!! *more huggggssss*

[Through the Living Elan He/Him]

30 minutes ago, Thee insane said:

I'm might swear an bit. But my life just turned upside down. Maybe i shouldn't say this online but I need solace somewhere and yall have become like my family. And if anytbing I need family. My parents are getting a divorce. I feel like I was stabbed. My family has had Hella issues in the past but it's become so good. I love them all so much but I feel like I was just killed inside. I'm currently at a friend's house cause they help with everything. They said they would still be friends and make sure that some stuff stays normal like out ward at church and school and whatnot. I will try to rp and stuff but that's not a priority. I want stuff to stay somewhat normal so I will be on the shard. 

If I had one power right now it would be to climb out of your computer and give you the biggest hug in the world. 

Instead this will have to suffice: *tight, comforting, older brother, semi-attack, I-will-love-you-always-and-forever-no-matter-what, hug*

If you need anything, and I mean anything, PM me 

[Keke They/he]

9 minutes ago, Through The Living Glass said:

Of course 

 

6 minutes ago, strmblsd said:

of course i, we care! your my and our friend!!!! *more huggggssss*

*huuuugggsssssdd*

Just now, Ancient Elantrian said:

If I had one power right now it would be to climb out of your computer and give you the biggest hug in the world. 

Instead this will have to suffice: *tight, comforting, older brother, semi-attack, I-will-love-you-always-and-forever-no-matter-what, hug*

If you need anything, and I mean anything, PM me 

Thanks *hugggiessss*

[Wittles he/him]

1 hour ago, Thee insane said:

I'm might swear an bit. But my life just turned upside down. Maybe i shouldn't say this online but I need solace somewhere and yall have become like my family. And if anytbing I need family. My parents are getting a divorce. I feel like I was stabbed. My family has had Hella issues in the past but it's become so good. I love them all so much but I feel like I was just killed inside. I'm currently at a friend's house cause they help with everything. They said they would still be friends and make sure that some stuff stays normal like out ward at church and school and whatnot. I will try to rp and stuff but that's not a priority. I want stuff to stay somewhat normal so I will be on the shard. 

*hugs* *so much hugs*

I don't really know what to say, but we're here for you

[MirkerLurker she/her]

Holy icicles batman, that's a lot of posts since I was last on. Alright.

22 hours ago, Ancient Elantrian said:

Guysssss all the people I like don't like me back and I don't trust my friends when they say they like me as a human 

*hug*
I read a post about that kind of thought, about not trusting when people say they like us, that really stuck with me (That's a thought that pops up in my head...a lot less than it used to, but it's quite familiar to me). https://ifunny.co/picture/reversing-the-negatives-thoughts-we-believe-our-partners-think-about-WrVfjDXE9
It boils down to: When we distrust them saying they like us, we're accusing our friends of lying. It's our brain trying to use shame and fear to trick us, and we need to actively focus on the evidence we have that they actually do like us - not them saying it, but them living it. We have that evidence, we just don't focus on it, and so our brains hide it, cover it up.

 

21 hours ago, Kaladin Stormcursed said:

I found the cool person club! (‘Cause we’re the coolest, let’s be real)

I feel that, I’m sorry

*hug*

We are so the cool people. Absolutely. 

 

20 hours ago, The Aspiring Archivist said:

Oh hey look. 

I think my anxiety is making a comeback. Along with executive dysfunction.

*Hug*
Let us know if you want advice, or just listening ears. We're here for you whatever you need.

 

11 hours ago, strmblsd said:

going insane today.. like to a decent degree.

more hugs! *hug*

 

8 hours ago, Ironwill2112 said:

omg what is this 

A hugfest, obviously. *drags Ironwill into the hugfest*

Also, a meme for this! For some explanation of why we do this:

 

7 hours ago, Ancient Elantrian said:

Noooooo don't remind me

Imolderthaneveryonehereimolderthaneveryonehereimolderthaneveryonehere

Also

Grandson?

Murder?

7 hours ago, Ancient Elantrian said:

You don't get to know that

cuz *throws confetti* ONLINE SAFETY!

Online safety is cool! I, however, have already said my age on here, cuz I'm not particularly worried for myself, so for a point of data on whether you're actually older than everyone on here: I'm 32! So if you're an adult like myself, you're at least not the only adult (though you may be older than me, and you don't need to confirm whether you are or aren't - I'm just giving you info, not asking for it in return! Keep your secrets!).
(Age is about the only thing I'll give out though. Anything related to location? Definitely not.)

 

6 hours ago, KnightSkye said:

Wait I know!! 

@Through The Living Glass I got today's in one try too. *thbbrbrbrbrbrbrrrr (that is me sticking my tongue out at you.)*

Shardle 1034 1/6

WHAT
HOW
SO JEALOUS

 

1 hour ago, Thee insane said:

I'm might swear an bit. But my life just turned upside down. Maybe i shouldn't say this online but I need solace somewhere and yall have become like my family. And if anytbing I need family. My parents are getting a divorce. I feel like I was stabbed. My family has had Hella issues in the past but it's become so good. I love them all so much but I feel like I was just killed inside. I'm currently at a friend's house cause they help with everything. They said they would still be friends and make sure that some stuff stays normal like out ward at church and school and whatnot. I will try to rp and stuff but that's not a priority. I want stuff to stay somewhat normal so I will be on the shard. 

*HUG*
I'm here. We're here for you.
I'm glad you have a friend nearby, who will try to help you adjust, keep what parts of normal you can, etc.
We will absolutely be your family. It won't be the same; but you will always have some kind of family here. 
*more hug*

[Through the Living Elan He/Him]

24 minutes ago, MirkerLurker said:

*hug*
I read a post about that kind of thought, about not trusting when people say they like us, that really stuck with me (That's a thought that pops up in my head...a lot less than it used to, but it's quite familiar to me). https://ifunny.co/picture/reversing-the-negatives-thoughts-we-believe-our-partners-think-about-WrVfjDXE9
It boils down to: When we distrust them saying they like us, we're accusing our friends of lying. It's our brain trying to use shame and fear to trick us, and we need to actively focus on the evidence we have that they actually do like us - not them saying it, but them living it. We have that evidence, we just don't focus on it, and so our brains hide it, cover it up.

 

Man

You just got me very close to crying. That's... I'm literally debating bookmarking that link.

*hugs*

24 minutes ago, MirkerLurker said:

Online safety is cool! I, however, have already said my age on here, cuz I'm not particularly worried for myself, so for a point of data on whether you're actually older than everyone on here: I'm 32! So if you're an adult like myself, you're at least not the only adult (though you may be older than me, and you don't need to confirm whether you are or aren't - I'm just giving you info, not asking for it in return! Keep your secrets!).
(Age is about the only thing I'll give out though. Anything related to location? Definitely not.)

Woah

32? 

Cool. Very adulty.

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

4 hours ago, Thee insane said:

I'm might swear an bit. But my life just turned upside down. Maybe i shouldn't say this online but I need solace somewhere and yall have become like my family. And if anytbing I need family. My parents are getting a divorce. I feel like I was stabbed. My family has had Hella issues in the past but it's become so good. I love them all so much but I feel like I was just killed inside. I'm currently at a friend's house cause they help with everything. They said they would still be friends and make sure that some stuff stays normal like out ward at church and school and whatnot. I will try to rp and stuff but that's not a priority. I want stuff to stay somewhat normal so I will be on the shard. 

Jeez! That really sucks, I’m so sorry! *HUG*

[Keke They/he]

I found a meme and think it deserves to be here. 

[KnightSkye Reforged They/Them]

9 minutes ago, Thee insane said:

I found a meme and think it deserves to be here. 

Yes.

[MirkerLurker she/her]

13 hours ago, Ancient Elantrian said:

Man

You just got me very close to crying. That's... I'm literally debating bookmarking that link.

*hugs*

Woah

32? 

Cool. Very adulty.

*hugs back*
I have that link saved as an image in a mental health folder on my computer. I go back and reread it every now and then.

Also, yep, very adulty, much grown-up, woo.

 

58 minutes ago, Thee insane said:

I found a meme and think it deserves to be here. 

YES

[KnightSkye Reforged They/Them]

Not today, but still aplicable. 

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

2 minutes ago, KnightSkye said:

Not today, but still aplicable. 

real

[Through the Living Elan He/Him]

hEeEllPppPp 

I can't flipping handle this

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

3 minutes ago, Ancient Elantrian said:

hEeEllPppPp 

I can't flipping handle this

*hugs*

What's going on?

[Bird Furious she/her/un/important]

3 hours ago, KnightSkye said:

Not today, but still aplicable. 

12 minutes ago, Ancient Elantrian said:

hEeEllPppPp 

I can't flipping handle this

*squeezes*

*offers smoothie*

What's up?