1. Im re-rereading OB and I definitely ship the OT3.
2. Same comment as below -
- You know your own identity, no one else can know that because theyre not you; and you dont have to have like a hook-up ratio to justify yourself. Y'all are valid and if anyone wants to gatekeep they can catch these hands.
Theres also lemme think, Battle-axe Bi's, Spear Queers, someone made a whole bunch of cute stickers for different identities, though Im not sure how many they originated and how many were just around already. Here! https://www.redbubble.com/people/foxflight/shop?artistUserName=foxflight&collections=877877&iaCode=all-departments&sortOrder=relevant
(disclaimer I dont know the person or having anything to do with them, dont make money from sales etc etc)
I dont see bi/pan as part hetero- part homo-, its its own fluid thing. I can be attracted to multiple types/genders of people at the same time. It is fluid and does lean certain ways sometimes and changes over time but its not a hetero/homo spectrum, its soup.*
*I am going through a phase of calling everything soup. Life is soup. Time is soup. Gender is soup. Attraction is soup. Its all soup for my family.
Theres also Wonder-Woman-throwing-a-tank form, I hear.
I take this is the same They who descends upon achillean* gays the moment they come out and sort them into tops and bottoms. (thats also a bit of a community joke)
*achillean is loosely men who love men, its feminine counterpart is sapphic, both can and do include non-binary people.