Is it... anywhere along the lines of being harassed for using weaponized incompetence...
When you're genuinely trying hardest?
But then you still feel bad, and don't object, because you feel like you should be better?
Hmmm.
Every time I've met a teacher that I've had (Including second grade) they've known my name, remembered me exactly, and ask questions involving life details I didn't know I shared.
It's honestly kinda creepy sometimes