Ah, my friend, I wish it were so simple. It isn't. Work can do a lot, but there are some things it can't change. There are some people who will always be better, have more, be stronger, without ever needing to work for it. That's just the way this work is. Though, of course, I'm also far from perfect at consistently putting in the work. Some days it's all I can do to get out of bed in the morning; some days I can't even do that. I'll get there, I'll get stronger eventually, just...sometimes, work doesn't pay off.
(sorry, I didn't mean that to sound confrontational or rude, it's just been a very long day and I speak from personal experience)
(also, we're all idiots sometimes. That's okay).