Both of you, that really sucks. People can be really inconsiderate and rude. Best way I have found to deal with both of these types is
a: calmly and rationally explain what is wrong. Try not to force all the blame onto them, even if they are responsible for all of that.
B: ignore them, though in both cases, that won't really work.
Draginon, I would go around, showing the person why everything is where it is and who requested what, if it hasn't been resolved.
Sorana, male supremicists are really ignorant and rude. Ignore him, and if he tries to do something because "you can't cause you're a girl." Calmly do the thing, and if he protests, say something along the lines of "even if you can do it better, it doesn't hurt to let me at least try." For the ignorance of emails... I don't really know.