Economics have also changed a great deal since those times, though. States are no longer so economically independent from each other. And in the city/country divide, I live in a city. (In fact, it's a city that happens to be divided in half between two states, which makes it even more complex.) My priorities are not the same as those of the rural voters in my state, and as such, my voice is drowned out by theirs. Kansas just doesn't have that much urban area, so my voice is drowned out. In the current setup, I essentially have no voice, and this is not acceptable to me.
I did not say this.
I said that as the election stands, Hillary won the popular vote. This is true.
I said that I dislike the Electoral College system. I do not like seeing one candidate win the popular vote while the other takes the Electoral College. I have a problem with this system in general. You are correct in saying that were the Electoral College not in place, it would have changed the number of people voting and the results would be unpredictable. Regardless, a straight popular vote would be a more fair system than what we have.
I would like to see the Electoral college if not abolished, then changed across the board to a more proportional allocation. The winner-take-all system we have now disenfranchises me, personally, as a voter.
Please stop implying that I have no right to be upset at the design of the system and the results of the election. My feelings are valid. My fears are valid. My concern that an actual friend of mine is going to wind up dying because the repeal of the ACA could strip away her health insurance is valid.