Looking at your ideas, I do actually like the possibility of the spear, tower, and crown being Kaladin's future sigil, though I think that 'he' probably refers to one person as opposed to a group, there would be many other ways of phrasing to imply a group and still be prophetic, and I'm convinced that the Highprince of War isn't the fallen title, fallen to me implies that it's very old where as far I can see HoW is something invented by Dalinar, but I may be wrong (and probably am). *and breathe*