Uh update ig I talked to a friend abt it this is what they said
you seem to pick and choose when your worried abt “friend” like for some stuff that super bad your just liek “ ok she’ll be fine” and with other stuff that isn’t really that bad most of the time you freak out after we’ve resolved it
so yup I didn’t realize I did that and now I feel even worse
Hey guys uhm I don’t rly talk on here very often but I’m going to talk to you guys abt this bc practically all my other friends know the people im talking abt so uh yah here it goes Basically one of my best friends is having a mental breakdown and I learned this from a different friend who she told and she posted something about it on her TikTok but she hasn’t even read my gm text and I’m rly worried abt her but im also crying that she doesn’t feel like I can help or she can trust me.But I feel bad bc she’s having a breakdown and I’m thinking abt myself. And I don’t know what to do bc I care abt her so much and at the end of the day my number one priority is for her to be ok but when she doesn’t tell me this stuff my first thought is that I a) did something wrong or b) am not a good friend. *sigh* luv you guys
*hugs back*Yah I’ve asked them and they always give me logical reasons that I can’t argue against but I seem to be able to convince myself that I’m worthless and a terrible friend a few months later.