I agree, and I am definitely overreacting. Not to just deflect to something else, but I think maybe I'm more upset at the fact that becoming a squire nearly guarantees you being one of few(ish) chosen radiants. If there were 50 windrunners, all from different parts of Roshar, all with as difficult a road as Kaladin had I wouldn't be as irritated. Windrunners may be a bad example because Bridge 4 had so much trauma. But taking someone as a squire should, for the most part, be just that. You remain a squire, not nearly guaranteed to become something more.