Okay, this is the longest thread ever, so pardon if I rehash something that's been said.
Let me preface by saying that I'm not much of a shipper in general. I don't feel like I'm personally backing a certain team in this race. It's a little disheartening to see triangulation happen between Shallan, Adolin, and Kaladin mostly because I like all of these characters so much, and I'm fond of all of the relationships that are developing betwixt and between them. The Adolin-Kaladin antagonist/bromance thing that's happening is just super. Also, I adore the way Kaladin and Shallan verbally spar and then connect in the chasms. Third, I love Adolin and Shallan because REALLY - any relationship that begins with a conversation about how to crap while wearing armor is hilarious and unexpected and great.
That said, I feel like I can't deny that there is a triangle on the horizon. The clues are all there - at this point, if nothing comes of it, I'll almost feel disappointed. Like we're all being jerked around a bit. Now I'm really more interested in how this whole triangle thing is going to shake out. As I see it, there are only a few possible conclusions to this particular romantic snarl.
A) Shadolin is somehow dissolved before anything can come of the Kaladin-Shallan connection: This could happen a number of ways. Things just fizzle out, or Adolin gets in major Trouble with the whole Sadeas thing. Like relationship threatening, life imperiling Trouble. I'm scared as all getout he's just going to die. This would be one of the ways Brandon could avoid the "dreaded love triangle" that many readers despise to such a degree. I don't like a triangle much myself, but if its drama or death - well, I'll take the drama.
B ) Classic triangle angst: Folks, I fear a full-on Lancelot and Guinevere fallout for our heroes. This could be the kind of interpersonal tangle that would seriously poison the fledgling Knights Radiant as a group. Even if things don't progress to that extreme, the bromance is doomed, and that's just not a happy thought.
C) Brandon figures out a third option: This could be where fans of Renarin or Jasnah place their hope. Or maybe Shallan just realizes she doesn't need a romantic entanglement to be a compelling character. Or maybe everyone is just too busy saving the world to get bent-out-of-shape about their relationship drama.
On the whole, I know Brandon is good at subverting expectations, so I'm probably way off. Either way I am quite excited to see how things develop in future books. So far the character and relationship arcs have been satisfying in the extreme so I guess I'll trust that the end result will be so as well. Or if not satisfying, at least cathartic?