@darkanimereal1
Ok, I have to admit, I was a bit harsh.. ok, really harsh on Adolin in my post. It has probably a lot to do with WoR still fresh in my mind since I finished it just recently.We all know what Adolin's last actions were, and to be honest, I was extremely disappointing with his character when he killed Sadeas, that is probably my main reason for the harshness. To his credit, I actually liked Adolin quite a lot in WoR, way more than in tWoK, because he seemed to have developed quite a bit, especially in his PoV's.
That said, I wanted to bring a little bit of context to my argument. I have a feeling there are a few wholes in it
I completely agree that there is still chance for Adolin and Shallan to continue/start having a functional relationship. I might have exaggerated a little bit in my statement about the shallowness of their relationship and I did not go over one of the very important aspects which is Adolin's own perspective. It can clearly be seen that Shallan is something else in context of his past relationships, from the time he sees her at the very beginning. Their conversations while courting also brought the sense of deviation from his past experiences, mostly due to Shallan's filtering failure she seems to be having a problem with haha. Which leads me to believe it will be devastating for him if he ends up attracting himself too much to Shallan just to end up being pushed away. Also, I forgot to mention that instance when Shallan literally hisses at him that she doesn't need protection right after she returns from the Highstorm which might evolve into a bigger issue because Alodin is used to being a protective figure (especially due to his brother).
As you say, I might have also exaggerated on the shallowness of their relationship from her point of view as well. She does have something other than physical attraction in her relationship with Adolin, I just find it not significant enough to matter. Even before Kaladin came to the picture, I felt Adolin was more a distraction from the hardships she was enduring than anything else. It did grow eventually, so there is still a slight chance for them. But, if it continues to be driven in the physical way (both with looks and family situation) and she doesn't find a way to completely open herself up to him, its just awaiting a disaster. Or it would be a dysfunctional relationship with only Adolin being truly invested.
Here though, I have to disagree (in regard of it not just being a wrench but a deal breaker). I read it more than once where people keep saying Shallan killed her dad in cold blood, which in my opinion is completely wrong. Shallan's father killed his wife and than started stabbing his own son and ordered an assassin to kill his other son; if someone did not put a stop to him, he would have killed more - making Shallan's actions more a self-defense than in cold blood. What other way would she have killed him but poison when his own son was not able to best him in swordplay and she was a sixteen year old girl. Adolin on the other hand, killed Sadeas completely in cold blood. Sadeas did what he always did, he bragged how he was going to ruin Dalinar and all of his plans. He did it multiple times throughout the book and he was as much a threat to Dalinar in the beginning of WoR as in the end, maybe even more so in the beginning. So, him killing Sadeas in the end was brutal and cold and even though Shallan killed before, I dont see her accepting this (unless Adolin twists the truth).
I also remembered one of the most crucial points that I did not see anyone mention (although I did not read all 20 pages of posts so I might be very very wrong ) which is Shallan's most recant discovery that she was the one who killed her mother as well. Besides Allfather being a spren, that was the most predictable discovery in the epilogue in my opinion. Regardless, I have a feeling that this revelation is going to severely mess with Shallan's character and she might not even be relationship ready to begin with most of the following book. If that ends up being the case, Kaladin has far more chance to breach the wall she makes than Adolin.
Regardless of anything mentioned above, I am glad we are all confident in one thing - Brandon is going to own it no matter what ends up happening