I have all the te-ea-ea!!! (the gossip. I mean the gossip.)

[OOKLA_the LIV She/They/Lesbian/hungry]

Yall.... i just need some opinions on this..... ( also, this is a place for aaaaaaalllll the tea. got tea? need opinions? I got you, sule. Kolo?

 

SO. I have a friend. lets call her........ Doug. I also have another friend. Let's call him.......... Doug2 .

Doug, my friend, is soooo nice, and told me that she has a crush on Doug2. Doug2, of course, is oblivious, and Doug is afraid to make a move. Anyway, Doug tells someone else..... Doug3. Doug3 was a bad choice, because Doug3 immidiatly went and told the entire cast of Antigone. (the play we ´ re all doing together.) THEN, Doug3 goes straight to Doug2, and tells him that Doug likes him. Doug2, embarased, posts online the story, and how he doesn't like Doug. Doug is so sweet and she is so nice, and she didn´t come to school yesterday, and sent a text/voice memo to our group chat in tears. Part of me wants to go get mad at Doug3, but I dont really know Doug3 that well. WORSE, and it gets SO MUCH WORSE, Doug2 didnt know that I´m lesbian. and guess what he did. He told the INTERNET that I was gonna go on a DATE WITH HIM. And I was like..... BRO. I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND. (actually I didnt say anything, I just avoided him like the plague.)

what do I doooooo I dont want Doug to get mad at meeeee and I dont want to go on a date with Doug222222222!!!!!

[Quantus he/him]

Nothing in what you said would be motivation to go on a date with Doug2, you are not responsible for his feelings on either side of things.  I would suggest talking to your friend Doug and reassure her of your disinterest in Doug2, just to avoid any misunderstandings.  

Honestly, Doug2 sounds like a bit of an idiot at best (and a huge jerk at worst) for just announcing that you'd go on a date with him without ever actually, you know, Asking you out.  Personally, it sounds to me like your friend Doug dodged a bullet and can likely do much better.  

[OOKLA_the LIV She/They/Lesbian/hungry]

12 hours ago, Quantus said:

Nothing in what you said would be motivation to go on a date with Doug2, you are not responsible for his feelings on either side of things.  I would suggest talking to your friend Doug and reassure her of your disinterest in Doug2, just to avoid any misunderstandings.  

Honestly, Doug2 sounds like a bit of an idiot at best (and a huge jerk at worst) for just announcing that you'd go on a date with him without ever actually, you know, Asking you out.  Personally, it sounds to me like your friend Doug dodged a bullet and can likely do much better.  

thank you thank you thank you

i need to have a conversation with Doug2. *determined face, hints of fear but mostly determination*