I'm not a shipper. I don't hold it against anyone who is, and it doesn't bother me if you are.
What does bother me is that any discussion of Shallan's future devolves into Shallan as an extension of Kaladin or Adolin's storylines or vice versa. This bothers me a lot.
So here's a place to discuss Shallan, her powers, her future with the Radiants/Ghostbloods/her family, Pattern, whatever, that is strictly Shadolin and Shalladin free.