That makes a ton of sense now, and kind of explains a lot. Devotion to others, and ambition to help others succeed? Also, did anyone else look up what odium meant after a few books? Blown away, never realized it meant that for a while.
This might be too much philosophy, and highly off-topic, but how do you think the "selflessness" aspect makes the shards completely different? Like honor is kind of a hypocrite, breaking the avoid others pact, and how cultivation doesn't care how you grow as long as it happens?