DramaQueen Posted January 26, 2023 Report Share Posted January 26, 2023 I think my attraction to guys and girls and nb folks are all separate and very different, and therefore doesn't quite fit the technical definition of panromanticism, but I still identify as pan because it feels right lol. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Aspiring Archivist Posted January 26, 2023 Report Share Posted January 26, 2023 1 hour ago, Szeth's Facepalm said: on the contrary it's super fun Bi gang cause i like girls better they're so prettyyyyyyyyyyyyy It's fun to constantly be distracted by everyone around you, and to constantly question if your feelings are reciprocated? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Szeth's Facepalm Posted January 26, 2023 Report Share Posted January 26, 2023 58 minutes ago, The Aspiring Archivist said: It's fun to constantly be distracted by everyone around you, and to constantly question if your feelings are reciprocated? umm... just because you don't feel something and don't understand it doesn't mean you have to put others down. i appreciate that you're aro and don't experience crushes and love the same way, and i'm not responding to everything you say about it with negative comments. i'd really appreciate it if you'd stop putting me down just because you don't understand my experience :( 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Aspiring Archivist Posted January 26, 2023 Report Share Posted January 26, 2023 47 minutes ago, Szeth's Facepalm said: umm... just because you don't feel something and don't understand it doesn't mean you have to put others down. i appreciate that you're aro and don't experience crushes and love the same way, and i'm not responding to everything you say about it with negative comments. i'd really appreciate it if you'd stop putting me down just because you don't understand my experience I'm sorry, I didn't mean to be condescending. I'm more trying to understand it, and I'm asking questions because it confuses me. I have nothing against romance at all, and I don't think it's a bad thing that you feel the way you do. I just think it's interesting that the thing you enjoy sounds like it would cause a lot of anxiety, for me at least. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Szeth's Facepalm Posted January 26, 2023 Report Share Posted January 26, 2023 14 minutes ago, The Aspiring Archivist said: I'm sorry, I didn't mean to be condescending. I'm more trying to understand it, and I'm asking questions because it confuses me. I have nothing against romance at all, and I don't think it's a bad thing that you feel the way you do. I just think it's interesting that the thing you enjoy sounds like it would cause a lot of anxiety, for me at least. Well... it doesn't. we're all different, i guess. i don't view every small crush as "omg i need to be in a relationship with this person"- on the contrary, i'm totally not interested in anything like that atm, since i feel way to young. but i just view crushes as fun, and i think people are nice looking and fun to be around and like romantically, and i don't think it's stressful at all. questions are great and awesome and cool, but please be polite. i wasn't miffed because you were asking questions, i was miffed because it was in a rude manner. :) 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Aspiring Archivist Posted January 26, 2023 Report Share Posted January 26, 2023 1 minute ago, Szeth's Facepalm said: Well... it doesn't. we're all different, i guess. i don't view every small crush as "omg i need to be in a relationship with this person"- on the contrary, i'm totally not interested in anything like that atm, since i feel way to young. but i just view crushes as fun, and i think people are nice looking and fun to be around and like romantically, and i don't think it's stressful at all. questions are great and awesome and cool, but please be polite. i wasn't miffed because you were asking questions, i was miffed because it was in a rude manner. Cool, that's actually quite helpful. I do realize now that the way I phrased my question was pretty blunt. I'm not the most socially adept person, so that can sometimes be an issue with me. Thanks for letting me know that it bothered you. I had no ill intent by it. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Medium Posted January 26, 2023 Report Share Posted January 26, 2023 4 hours ago, Szeth's Facepalm said: on the contrary it's super fun Bi gang cause i like girls better they're so prettyyyyyyyyyyyyy just cuddle me im so touch starved PLEASE 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Szeth's Facepalm Posted January 26, 2023 Report Share Posted January 26, 2023 Just now, CalanoCorvus said: just cuddle me im so touch starved PLEASE *sends cuddles and headpats* it's ok doomie you're gonna make it 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Medium Posted January 26, 2023 Report Share Posted January 26, 2023 i can never get enough cuddles and kisses i am so unimaginably romantically and physically starved. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Szeth's Facepalm Posted January 26, 2023 Report Share Posted January 26, 2023 1 minute ago, CalanoCorvus said: i can never get enough cuddles and kisses i am so unimaginably romantically and physically starved. dude don't you have a gf? i'm joking i know you have a gf. obviously i know you have a gf. do we need to tag her? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Medium Posted January 26, 2023 Report Share Posted January 26, 2023 1 minute ago, Szeth's Facepalm said: dude don't you have a gf? i'm joking i know you have a gf. obviously i know you have a gf. do we need to tag her? she is exceptionally busy ;-; she will not respond to your tag for it is show week for her and tonight is opening night and i see her for the first time since monday morning anyways. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Szeth's Facepalm Posted January 26, 2023 Report Share Posted January 26, 2023 5 minutes ago, CalanoCorvus said: she is exceptionally busy ;-; she will not respond to your tag for it is show week for her and tonight is opening night and i see her for the first time since monday morning anyways. aw tell her to break a leg :D and pillows are good for hugs if you have no humans to hug. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Medium Posted January 26, 2023 Report Share Posted January 26, 2023 1 minute ago, Szeth's Facepalm said: aw tell her to break a leg and pillows are good for hugs if you have no humans to hug. i sent her some good tips this omrning >:) 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Aspiring Archivist Posted January 26, 2023 Report Share Posted January 26, 2023 17 minutes ago, CalanoCorvus said: i can never get enough cuddles and kisses i am so unimaginably romantically and physically starved. Poor Calano. *gives imaginary hug* 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheGreatSnail Posted January 27, 2023 Report Share Posted January 27, 2023 Greetings humans! Mind if I join yall? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Aspiring Archivist Posted January 27, 2023 Report Share Posted January 27, 2023 31 minutes ago, TheGreatSnail said: Greetings humans! Mind if I join yall? Hello there! 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheGreatSnail Posted January 27, 2023 Report Share Posted January 27, 2023 Hewwoooo 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Aspiring Archivist Posted January 27, 2023 Report Share Posted January 27, 2023 1 minute ago, TheGreatSnail said: Hewwoooo So what brings you here? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheGreatSnail Posted January 27, 2023 Report Share Posted January 27, 2023 Just now, The Aspiring Archivist said: So what brings you here? I was just looking through the shard to see what would interest me (I havent read most of his books), and I saw that there were queers sooooooo.... now im here 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Aspiring Archivist Posted January 27, 2023 Report Share Posted January 27, 2023 Just now, TheGreatSnail said: I was just looking through the shard to see what would interest me (I havent read most of his books), and I saw that there were queers sooooooo.... now im here Ah. If you don't mind me asking, how do you identify? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheGreatSnail Posted January 27, 2023 Report Share Posted January 27, 2023 Omniromatic (preference for nonmen) and acesexual, pronouns are she/her 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Aspiring Archivist Posted January 27, 2023 Report Share Posted January 27, 2023 2 minutes ago, TheGreatSnail said: Omniromatic (preference for nonmen) and acesexual, pronouns are she/her Cool. Welcome in! I'm aroace, he/him. What brings you to the shard? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheGreatSnail Posted January 27, 2023 Report Share Posted January 27, 2023 1 minute ago, The Aspiring Archivist said: Cool. Welcome in! I'm aroace, he/him. What brings you to the shard? My friends convinced me to start reading Skyward and to get on the shard, after about a month of them asking. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Aspiring Archivist Posted January 27, 2023 Report Share Posted January 27, 2023 Just now, TheGreatSnail said: My friends convinced me to start reading Skyward and to get on the shard, after about a month of them asking. Ah, so you were pressured. What sharders do you know, then? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheGreatSnail Posted January 27, 2023 Report Share Posted January 27, 2023 Just now, The Aspiring Archivist said: Ah, so you were pressured. What sharders do you know, then? @InfiniteInsanity and @The Bookwyrm were the ones who were asking 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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