Posted September 28, 2022 My dog passed away It was in a really sad way She's been in my family since before i was born, ane even though she was really old, she was in good health and it was very unexpected I'm really sad :( 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 28, 2022 *massive hugs and cuddles* noooo facepalm im so sorryy that sucks. we're all here if you need to talk, and I'm sure she's in a better place now. *hugs again* im so sorry :((( 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 28, 2022 *hugs* I'm sorry for your loss. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 28, 2022 7 hours ago, Szeth's Facepalm said: My dog passed away It was in a really sad way She's been in my family since before i was born, ane even though she was really old, she was in good health and it was very unexpected I'm really sad *Hugs* I've lost pets before. I'm so sorry. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2022 7 hours ago, Szeth's Facepalm said: My dog passed away It was in a really sad way She's been in my family since before i was born, ane even though she was really old, she was in good health and it was very unexpected I'm really sad *Hugs* I'm so sorry. What kind of dog was she? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2022 8 hours ago, Szeth's Facepalm said: My dog passed away It was in a really sad way She's been in my family since before i was born, ane even though she was really old, she was in good health and it was very unexpected I'm really sad I'm sorry to hear that. It's so tough to lose a beloved pet. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2022 9 hours ago, Szeth's Facepalm said: My dog passed away It was in a really sad way She's been in my family since before i was born, ane even though she was really old, she was in good health and it was very unexpected I'm really sad *Hugs* I'm sorry, I've never lost a pet that was close to me before, but we almost lost one of our cats a couple years ago and it was terrifying. We are all hear to talk if you need to. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2022 Thanks for the hugs. It just feels worse the longer she's gone. But i drew some stuff and i'm reading my favorite books and i did some minor key cello improv w/ my cello teacher and that's helping. She's been with us my entire life, every single day, and i keep thinking she's in her dog bed or that a noise is her sniffing around in the living room but then i remember she's buried in the backyard and it hurts so much On 9/28/2022 at 8:04 PM, Ranryu said: *Hugs* I'm so sorry. What kind of dog was she? She was a yorkshire terrier. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2022 *many cookies* *many cuddles* *many sad tears* I wish I could help… 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2022 *hugs* *hugshugshugs* I‘m so sorry. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2022 On 9/29/2022 at 8:03 PM, Szeth's Facepalm said: She's been with us my entire life, every single day, and i keep thinking she's in her dog bed or that a noise is her sniffing around in the living room but then i remember she's buried in the backyard and it hurts so much Ouch, I bet it does. I'm so sorry. *Hugs some more* 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 4, 2022 Basic math: ADHD + bullies in school + being behind on work - chatting with friends = Unintelligible screaming noises. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAUG! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 4, 2022 1 minute ago, NerdyAarakocra said: Basic math: ADHD + bullies in school + being behind on work - chatting with friends = Unintelligible screaming noises. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAUG! I have second hand experience of the first one, none with the second, and first hand experience with the third and fourth. First of all *hugs*, I know it might not seem like much, but remember that you are loved. Second, bullies are dumb as they don't realize that bullying someone else doesn't change their situation. Third, try to get some work done....I also have some work I need to get done after this. Fourth have a cat! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 4, 2022 14 minutes ago, The Wandering Wizard said: I have second hand experience of the first one, none with the second, and first hand experience with the third and fourth. First of all *hugs*, I know it might not seem like much, but remember that you are loved. Second, bullies are dumb as they don't realize that bullying someone else doesn't change their situation. Third, try to get some work done....I also have some work I need to get done after this. Fourth have a cat! Thank you for the kind words, double thanks for the hugs, and quadruple thanks for the cat. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 8, 2022 The situation in Iran. I was gonna elaborate but I think I might cry, so better just leave it at that. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 9, 2022 Not bad, just a ‘why??!!’ moment. I had ordered something off Amazon and it arrived but it was the wrong item. The only option given to me was a refund, not even a replacement or sending me the correct item. Then I went to the store to get some iced tea and they were all out. I then went to grab something to eat and get tea there and they were out too. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 9, 2022 On 10/3/2022 at 7:21 PM, NerdyAarakocra said: Basic math: ADHD + bullies in school + being behind on work - chatting with friends = Unintelligible screaming noises. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAUG! I'm so sorry. I feel so bad for you. *Hugs* Life sure is rough sometimes, isn't it? I'm so sorry those things have and continue to happen to you. You will come out of this stronger than you were before, and trust me on this, you are doing great. 3 hours ago, Draginon said: Not bad, just a ‘why??!!’ moment. I had ordered something off Amazon and it arrived but it was the wrong item. The only option given to me was a refund, not even a replacement or sending me the correct item. Then I went to the store to get some iced tea and they were all out. I then went to grab something to eat and get tea there and they were out too. *Hugs* That's not fun. I've had days like that too, where it just seems like nothing is going right. I don't know what to tell you, so I will just give a good piece of general advice that helps me when I'm in a bad mood. (Though I don't often follow it) Get some sleep, you'll feel better soon. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16, 2022 I’ve been looking for this one notebook format, because I fell in love with it and mine is almost full. But I can’t find it anywhere—I’ve scoured the Internet—and I think it’s been discontinued. It’s such a stupid little thing to make such a big deal out of, but I still… it’s still so sad to me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16, 2022 1 hour ago, The Halcyon Girl said: I’ve been looking for this one notebook format, because I fell in love with it and mine is almost full. But I can’t find it anywhere—I’ve scoured the Internet—and I think it’s been discontinued. It’s such a stupid little thing to make such a big deal out of, but I still… it’s still so sad to me. Oh no! Do you know what kind it was, the brand or anything? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16, 2022 17 minutes ago, Slowswift said: Oh no! Do you know what kind it was, the brand or anything? Yeah, and I went to their website. It’s just not there at all. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16, 2022 28 minutes ago, The Halcyon Girl said: Yeah, and I went to their website. It’s just not there at all. Well, that stinks. Sorry to hear that! I hope you can find another notebook you like. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 2, 2022 Well my friends gf and them had a nice romantic halloween then i started venting about how frustrating it is to have a girlfriend who's always busy... ok i can't explain this well myself. i'll let the text messages do it for me. Spoiler i dunno y'all.. im worried for her, and my friend offered good advice, but i still worry for her. i love her to death, and i don't want her to burn herself out, you know? 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 2, 2022 1 hour ago, CalanoCorvus said: Well my friends gf and them had a nice romantic halloween then i started venting about how frustrating it is to have a girlfriend who's always busy... ok i can't explain this well myself. i'll let the text messages do it for me. Hide contents i dunno y'all.. im worried for her, and my friend offered good advice, but i still worry for her. i love her to death, and i don't want her to burn herself out, you know? It's because you love her that you worry for her. And the best advice I have is to be there for her and to care for her, and let her know that you care. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 2, 2022 9 hours ago, CalanoCorvus said: Well my friends gf and them had a nice romantic halloween then i started venting about how frustrating it is to have a girlfriend who's always busy... ok i can't explain this well myself. i'll let the text messages do it for me. Reveal hidden contents i dunno y'all.. im worried for her, and my friend offered good advice, but i still worry for her. i love her to death, and i don't want her to burn herself out, you know? If I may be so bold, I'll reiterate what was said and add some more. If you did not love her then you would not be as worried as you are right now. You have a big heart and loyalty which are noble things. Being there for her and letting her know that you are there for her are critical things. She should know that you are there to listen if she ever wants to talk. It is important that you are there, but not pushing her to move faster than she is ready for. There is this urge to protect and to make all of the troubles and pain go away. However, sometimes that desire blinds us and makes us act rashly. The best thing that you can do is be a comfort without smothering her. This is not an easy thing, but it is essential. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 2, 2022 I agree with what has been said above, Calano. You worry for her because you love her, and I do think that the best thing you can do is just be there for her. You're a good boyfriend, there should be more people like you in the world. And now sorry to add on but. I kinda feel like I'm losing sight of myself, you know. I miss myself; i miss who I used to be. I miss the girl who stayed up till 3am reading The Secret History and listening to the rain outside. I miss the person who listened to Lacrimosa while reading The Song of Achilles and cried. I miss the one who watched Howls Moving Castle and who's nights were filled with books and tea and music. And for whom words flew like water from her fingers; who didn't find it so difficult to craft worlds and stories, and spent hours writing poetry. I don't do most of those things anymore and I feel like I'm losing my core. And I'm worried I'll never get that girl back. In the the tumultuous change of time, how do you not lose yourself? The Earth will eat us all in the end; all our work, all our efforts; buildings, machines. Surely the Earth will eat the birds too, when they tire of flying. We are a brief flicker in the undying eternity of the cosmos: Stardust come alive; the universe begging for a chance to understand itself. How do you make the most of life, if you don't even know who you are anymore? 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
