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  1. I don't like Game of Thrones. I read the first book as a young teenager and couldn't pin down why I didn't like it- forgot about it and reread the first book again as an adult and still disliked it despite being an avid fantasy fan. It comes down to being bothered that the only way women seem to have or get any power in this series is either through sex or manipulation. As if those are the only 2 valid avenues....we have enough examples in RL of dis-empowered women that I don't need to find it in my entertainment. My husband's co workers (note not my husband) watch the show at work ( their occupation allows tv at work) and refer to it as 'Titties and Dragons' ...'nuff said
  2. I agree. I read this whole causal arrangement as basically 'if the blind date turns out good then we can progress to the possibility of marriage.' Both had the agency to break the causal. Many people today still go out in dates set up by someone else. Some end in marriage and some don't. The causal was set in place to see if it would work out. I think this functions differently from the "arranged marriage" we are used to seeing in a lot of fiction
  3. (Bolded)I think if you will go back and read through the thread (daunting task I know) you will see from multiple posts/people that this is not the issue. (Unbolded) this is more in line with the majority of the thread
  4. @Ookla the Feathered you make an interesting and compelling argument. I enjoyed reading it. I don't really have strong feelings on the subject either way and but I could definitely be swayed by your logic
  5. If this is the resolution and Shallan chose herself then why didn't Veil and Radiant reintegrate into her. Instead she's actually talking to both of them as if they are separate people right before her wedding....
  6. This post is a mistake- can't figure it how to delete. Sorry
  7. Does it ever get old to watch the same old trope 'farm boy does chores before getting powers and spends x amount of pages failing at them before succeeding'? When done by a skilled author - no. We watched with just as much interested as Rand Al'Thor rolled casks of cider into the Inn at the beginning of Eye of the World because his chores - mundane as they are informed us about the world around him. I don't feel those scenes watered down the narrative but rather enriched his world and fleshed it out in a fuller sense. Kids don't have to be boring in the narrative and who says focusing on them would reduce the story to the mundane? If anything the wider perspective of a normal child in the midst of extraordinary events could prove enlightening. Paraphrasing BS on what he learned from Robert Jordan. "A cup of water is never just a cup of water in a book. That being said I hope we get to see a little of Gavinor in S4. I don't necessarily need there to start being a ton of children in this series I was taking more kids in general fantasy. @maxal of course no one's lives are perfect when they decide to have kids but responsible people who are planning for children at least try to make sure they are stable. Shallan is....not and i agree with you- it's because we so rarely see it that I would finding it interesting to read.
  8. More than one woman has asked herself just after giving birth (points to self) ..... The mind is both a kind and tricksy mistress in that the passage of time usually highlights the end result as well as dimming the agonizing path to get there. And also a woman's perception going into birth has a lot to do with how the birth will go and how she will recall it in her mind afterwards. Pain is not necessarily suffering. Someone can experience pain ( example: pushing oneself in a marathon can be painful to the body but you wouldnt categorize yourself as suffering both because you chose to do this, it's not being done to you and you see the goal at the end of the finish line and know that there is purpose to your pain) suffering on the other hand is something no woman should have to experience during pregnancy/birth/postpartum.A lot of women experience this unfortunately. Whether lack of proper support from those around her to her perceptions and fears surrounding the pain she is feeling. In this many things can help but I have found this to be one of the most helpful. Knowledge takes away fear and lack of fear takes away pain. (Obviously birth is still painful for most but the perception of that pain can be the difference between suffering and not suffering) i didn't mean to spin off of this tangent. PM if you are interested in discussing more. I teach childbirth classes and am always interested in hearing difference peoples opinions. It's not the resistance to Shallan having kids. It's the resistance to Shallan having kids RIGHT NOW. She's clearly not in a mental state healthy enough to be able to properly care for both them and herself. I was actually thinking this morning that it's true we don't hardly ever see children in their normal role as part of a family has a main plot point. I agree with you that I would love to read something's including that.
  9. This is a difficult one because who draws the line and where it lands would differ according to everyone. However I do come down more on the @SLNC side. Everyone has a measure of responsibility for what they put out into the world. Most of us are small fish with minimal widespread ripples in how we effect the world at large. For those with a platform large enough to reach a more widespread populace the measure of responsibility increases to a point. This means research and a knowledge of how what you present may be taken. Note I said measure and not sole responsibility. Media in all its forms has a huge impact on culture and morality and the shifts they take. Adults aren't the only ones with exposure to media as well. Books/movies/tv etc. have a definite impact on kids/adolescents in their formative years. This can be for good or bad- it just is. This isn't to say that characters should never make bad decisions or decisions that aren't healthy. Otherwise where would your conflict and growth be? But aknowledgement either through interaction or consequence to clearly shows that these decisions may not be the best course of action even if the character continues down that path show that least the creator is aware and that it intentional and gives closure. I believe Brandon is a responsible thoughtful writer. I think he does his research. That being said, having Shallan make a decision at the end of the book that is clearly not in her best interests (having nothing to do with either Kaladin or Adolin - just simply throwing herself into marriage and calling it good) and then boom the book ends with no resolution on the outcome of that decision does send a message. It will be 3 more years and then we don't even pick up where we left off - it's a one year time skip. ....that bothers me.
  10. Yes I have read and agreed/commented on the theories about Pattern. And the point about Shadesmar still stands. Yes Pattern is being aloof but we don't really see Shallan going out of her way to engage with him either. When Syl's bond with Kaladin frayed we saw her becoming more childlike not Kaladin keeping his distance from her. In fact he tries to engage with her several times and then dismisses her lack of reciprocation as down to her whimsical nature. Shallan doesn't even seem to notice Pattern being less chatty and more aloof. In fact I actually said that I think it is self hate she is externalizing into pattern. She asks why her mother tried to kill her- she loved her mother. And then she understands that her mother tried to kill her because of Pattern. Because of what she could do because of her bond with Pattern. Which is easier to do? Hate the woman she called mother whom she loved or hate 'the Spren that caused it all' (im being sarcastic here becasuse we know Pattern didn't cause any of it) which is why I call it externalized self hate. “Why did she try to kill me, Pattern?” Shallan whispered. “Mmm . . .” “It started when she found out what I could do.” She remembered it now. Her mother’s arrival, with a friend Shallan didn’t recognize, to confront her father. Her mother’s shouts, arguing with her father. Mother calling Shallan one of them. Her father barging in. Mother’s friend with a knife, the two struggling, the friend getting cut in the arm. Blood spilled on the carpet. The friend had won that fight, eventually holding Father down, pinned on the ground. Mother took the knife and came for Shallan. And then . . . And then a sword in Shallan’s hands. “He let everyone believe that he’d killed her,” Shallan whispered. “That he’d murdered his wife and her lover in a rage, when I was the one who had actually killed them. He lied to protect me.” “I know.” "That secret destroyed him. It destroyed our entire family.” “I know.” “I hate you,” she whispered, staring into her mother’s dead eyes. “I know.” Pattern buzzed softly. “Eventually, you will kill me, and you will have your revenge.” “I don’t want revenge. I want my family.” - Words of Radiance My point being, their bond as vastly different compared to other bonds. They are in Shadesmar- he has an actual body more resembling a human one - giving them more common ground and yet the only real time they talk is when she needs something or wants to discuss something more academic in nature. It's just contrasting the different nature of the bonds between different KR
  11. I think it would probably be different for each one considering the wide variance of the natures of both Spren and KR. Take for example some of the the different types of bonds we have on display now. Kaladin/Syl: These two are obviously very close and as Kaladin progresses their bond deepens. Syl's understanding and perception of human behavior has expanded exponentially. She is capable of caring about Kaladin and wants to be involved in his life choices. She is Kaladin's confidante. I could see in the future any non Radient woman coming into his life might have the opportunity to feel intimidated by and playing second fiddle to their relationship. Shallan/Pattern: Their relationship is much different. For one thing at one point Shallan actually tells Pattern she hates him. (Now I think a lot of this is self hate at how she has made use of Pattern in killing her mother but the point remains that she has a lot of resentment built up towards him) This is the foundations of their conscious bond. As Pattern grows in awareness their relationship very much stays in the academic. Experientation with lies and truth. They aren't best buddies. Shallan resents being tied to him but still makes use of him as you would a tool. When in Shadesmar we hardly see them interact at all unless Shallan needs something. (As opposed to Kaladin who flips his lid when Syl gets locked up) Dalinar/StormFather: This is the first Relationship we see reversed where the KR seeked to bond the spren instead of the otherway around with the Spren finding the KR. Their relationship is still evolving as well. At the beginning of OB the Stormfather is very resistant to being bound and to considering any form of change and by the end he has more or less accepted the Nahel bond. Their partnership is still very much on a professional level of colleagues working towards a common goal - not drinking buddies out to shoot the breeze and experiment with Dalinar's powers. In fact several times we see the storm father refuse to give information or help because he doesn't trust Dalinar. I don't think Navani is worried that Dalinar is suddenly going to keep all his confidences from her in preference for hashing it out HighStorm style.
  12. Oh oh oh then I want to be ships boy!! ( or girl - I can totally rock the Bloody Jack vibe) I'm pretty sure they get all the great gossip and scraps from the galley. * referencing the Bloody Jack series by L.A. Meyers (so awesome on audio)
  13. @SLNC you beat me to it. Its not the fact that Shallan makes a (open to interpretation here) wrong decision. If that's a decision she makes on her journey as a character then I am strapped in for the ride no matter which way she goes. But she made a decision and then the book ended. ......crickets...... no her arc doesn't need to be tied up In A Bow- there are seven more books to go but it feels like this arc got violently cut in half. What I have always appreciated from Brandon's books is that each book even when part of a series feels like a whole book. We have a beginning, middle, end. It's not THE end but is ONE end to each particular book. Paraphrasing @PhineasGage Here in that feeling becalmed in the SS Shallan when expected to make landfall. And now waiting another THREE YEARS to see if land is even in sight or if we are about to fall off the edge of the world into the space of forgotten/dismissed plot points
  14. @PhineasGage So first of all - major props to you for being able to sort through and multi quote and respond to all these posts so quickly. Girl you are a machine and I salute you! I see what you mean and yes that would drive me crazy. My husband comments on my apparently increasingly sensitivity issues regarding women ( to be fair to him never in a way that is hurtful) so I can see where the sentiment that Shallan's natural progression from marriage is to start popping out kids would be irritating because that sentiment bugs me too. We are more than walking uteruses! Lol i just couldn't resist clarifying where that mentality may come from a bit. Commenting on your observation about choice and Jasnah's words: I wish I could find the actual quote of that because this was an incredibly moving and inspiring piece of writing. It really resonates with me and touched me as a person. And it demonstrates a depth of understanding a strong woman that that contrast so crazily with the odd turn at the end of OB that makes me think BS HAS to know what he he's doing right??!! Makes makes the disparity even more jarring! My comment on raising kids was mainly directly at the observation that kids aren't interesting until they are old enough to be interesting. I just haven't found that to be true and was comparing how we watch their changes and progression with the same excitement we show these imaginary people we are so hyped up about. i do think shallan is going to have to have some sort of 'rock bottom' moment because it wouldnt make sense if she just up and got better after acquiring the 'love of a good strong man' i think Pattern is gonna be our canary on this subject and watching him will be a good indication of how close we get to hitting that bottom.
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